(Closed) How often do you wear “pretty things”?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you wear pretty things?
    never : (16 votes)
    11 %
    once or twice a year : (41 votes)
    28 %
    once or twice a month : (35 votes)
    24 %
    once or twice a week : (21 votes)
    15 %
    every day : (8 votes)
    6 %
    only special occasions when we really wanna get it on : (23 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
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    3522 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I don’t really like “plain” bras (most of what comes in my size and is plain is also full-coverage, which I don’t need), so almost all of them are lacy. I have some plain cotton undies, but I save those for AF. I’ve gotten so used to wearing pretty things every day that I don’t think anything of it. Darling Husband isn’t a lingerie guy, either, so it’s not like I’m making the nice stuff less special by wearing it every day. Darling Husband prefers simple things–like a plain slip or t-shirt and panties. He’s easy to please, but it’s frustrating sometimes because I like the pretty things. πŸ˜›

    Post # 4
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    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Yay for feeling sexy!

    This may be Too Much Information, but I dress up for Fiance all the time, at least once a week.  Except I don’t usually wear lingerie; although I have some and he doesn’t mind it, it’s not his favourite.  When I dress up I mean I “dress up”….picture slutty hallowe’en costumes, haha.  I’ll sometimes be dressed up when he gets home from work, or just during the day on a weekend, or sometimes I’ll slip into something just before bed.

    Welcome back from your Honeymoon, by the way! πŸ™‚

    Post # 5
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    1361 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I have probably 6 babydoll pieces, but I hardly ever wear them.  Mostly because I’m lazy, but also because I’m always FREEZING before we get started, and then I’m really not in the mood.  I would love some sexy nighties, but I love my fleece pants way too much.

    Post # 6
    Member
    756 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Rarely — I never really saw the point of lingerie, since you’re just going to take it off anyway. πŸ˜‰

    However, I did a boudoir shoot a few weeks ago and I have to admit I had a lot of fun buying my “wardrobe” for it.

    Post # 7
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    7293 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I think there are some super cute , sexy and pretty stuff out there!

    I just can’t bring myself to buy it if it just gets taken off πŸ˜‰

    I ocassionally where something, but I’m just getting into the swing of things with my husband so Im not sure if he is a big lingere fan or not.

    Post # 8
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    5921 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I have quite a collection after my bachelorette party, so I try to spice it up once a week or so.

    Does anyone else and their Darling Husband have a crazy different view of what is sexy? I love pretty, soft lingerie.  A lot of my stuff is from VS.  He ordered me a surprise and mailed it to me while he was out of town, and it was a crazy strappy weird thing.  Not a fan.

    Post # 9
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    199 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I wear pretty things every day πŸ™‚ Now, I’m not talkin’ crazy sexy things all the time… but I just don’t own/buy plain bras or undies. And I’ve never liked sweat pants. Fiance would probably be shocked (and a little excited) to see me throw on a pair of sweats and one of his t-shirts but I just don’t know if I could do it! Kudos to girls who can feel sexy in anything!

    Post # 10
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    14495 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I buy things about once a month to suprise Darling Husband with, usually just a pretty bra and panty that I find inexpensively on ideeli or gilt.  I prob wear them once every week or two just to remind him what a sexified 40 year old his wife is, LOL.

    Post # 11
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    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I wear pretty things most days. I have a few pairs of silly knickers (Wonder Woman mock Y-fronts etc) but mostly it’s matching sets with coordinating suspenders (garters) and pretty stockings.

    Yes, I even wear heels.

    What’s the point in all that grooming if you’re just going to wear ugly undies?

    Post # 12
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    1327 posts
    Bumble bee

    Honestly maybe once a year. I am just so much happier in pj pants and one of FI’s shirts lol. In the summer I will wear pj shorts and a tank top but thats about as good as it gets lol.

    Post # 13
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    3601 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    I gotta keep up the sexy image πŸ˜‰

    Post # 14
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    11394 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    My bras & undies are always pretty. But I never really wear them once we are getting ready to do it. I take everything off. πŸ˜‰

    Post # 15
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    1577 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    A couple times a month I dress up,  more in the way that Juliepants describes…  it’s a little closer to a costume/outfit than just one item of lingerie, and like SpecialSundae, almost always involves a pair of heels.

    But never at bedtime (I refuse to sleep in anything but my birthday suit unless I’m winter camping).

    Post # 16
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    5984 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1999

    @SleepingWithNuns:  I’m sure the hubby is loving your sexiness inside and out! 

    @Linz1231:  Do post a pic of the crazy, strappy, wierd thing?!  lol

    I suppose I should try being sexy every now and then.  Lately, I’ve been so stinkin’ cold that I wear sweats and a zip up hoodie.  So hot, I know!  haha

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