(Closed) How often do you discuss the future and who initiates the discussion?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: How often do you bring up the future?
    we talk about it often and he usually brings it up : (3 votes)
    10 %
    we talk about it often and i usually bring it up : (6 votes)
    19 %
    we talk about it together often : (11 votes)
    35 %
    we discuss it from time to time, and i'm the one who always brings it up : (7 votes)
    23 %
    we discuss it from time to time, and he always brings it up : (2 votes)
    6 %
    other : (2 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    115 posts
    Blushing bee

    Now that we’ve talked in-depth about marriage and have a time line set, I say we talk about the future every few weeks or so. We only see each other 2x/wk though. I bring it up more than he does but when I do, he opens up too. 

    Post # 4
    232 posts
    Helper bee

    He surprises me sometimes and asks if there is anything interesting on this site.  I’m still waiting and just didn’t think he was interested, but he’s shown interest in the wedding stuff I read.  It’s not just that though, we know who will be taking care of what in the future.  I think we both enjoy the conversations.

    Post # 5
    3942 posts
    Honey bee

    We talk about the future a lot, but the wedding is really a small part of it. We talk about our future children, the next home we buy, etc.

    Post # 5
    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    My husband and I rarely talked future when we were dating. I always loved watching wedding shows, so I’d slip in hints here and there but that’s about it. It made the proposal even more of a surprise.

    Post # 6
    5371 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

    We talk about the future a lot, probably everyday or every other day. It’s usually about our future life after a proposal/wedding. I don’t think either of us really brings it up more than the other one (:

    Post # 7
    2408 posts
    Buzzing bee

    we talk about it here and there, though it has come up a lot more lately. while we both bring it up, i think i might edge him out though he does send me more notes/links through email so maybe that evens us back up.

    Post # 8
    1058 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    We talk about the future constantly and he is always bring it up. He told me tonight it won’t be long now…. he said he is tried of going to bed alone…without a wife and he is ready to have me in bed next to him. He talks about me being his wife all the time, our future, our love, our home (he just purchased), our wedding.. IKR a guy talking about a wedding… I AM SO BLESSED, our everything….

    I’m ready when he is… I’m trying to be relaxed, but if he ask me to marry him tomorrow… I’M GAME FOR IT! I DO!!!!!!!!!!

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