(Closed) How often do you expect calls/texts from the guy yore dating?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 46
Member
1310 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

zebra10:  This is still going on??

Post # 47
Member
3307 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

4 texts once a day is not enough for you? And you see him “several days a week”?

I’m surprised your neediness hasn’t turned him off. 

Post # 50
Member
928 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You really, really need to seek counseling. Weddingbee doesn’t have the knowledge and resources to help you solve your problems. If you know that you’re insecure and needy, why not try to fix that rather than search desperately for a guy who will validate you enough to make you not worry? You’ll never find a guy like that, and you’ll never feel truly secure until you’ve attended to your own mental and emotional health. If I were you, I would stop dating until I had gone through quite a bit of therapy. You deserve to be happy, and I don’t think you can be until you get help. I wish you the best of luck. 

Post # 51
Member
1837 posts
Buzzing bee

zebra10:  Some people just don’t want to text. I’ve never received or sent a text to my Fiance — as neither of us like texting. Neither of us like talking on the phone either. If you need to be in constant contact, maybe you should find someone else who also likes it. ETA: Just finished reading the whole thread. It sounds like you have an anxiety disorder and could benefit from getting some help with it. 

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 7 months ago by  alamana.

The topic ‘How often do you expect calls/texts from the guy yore dating?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors