(Closed) How often do you "finish" together?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you and your SO "finish" together?
    Pretty much always : (65 votes)
    15 %
    Sometimes : (107 votes)
    25 %
    Eh, we have a few times : (123 votes)
    29 %
    What the eff? This happens?? : (124 votes)
    29 %
    Other : (9 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    905 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Fiance and I have a few times, but I honestly think it was an accident/unintentional. Haha.

    Post # 4
    3465 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    @SweetMelissa429:  It happens for my SO and I, but usually only through manual stimulation during intercourse. Certain positions allow for us both to “finish” which is awesome! But honestly sometimes I’m so tired I don’t even care and I just let SO do his thing. We still have a fantastic sex life regardless of us always finishing together or not.


    Post # 6
    7901 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    A few times in the 5 years we’ve been together.

    Post # 7
    3276 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    So FH and I have been together for 3 years and I’ve never finished. Is that strange? 

    Post # 8
    1123 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    We do pretty frequently, it really gets us… Excited… To know the other is so it puts it into motion pretty quickly. We know eachother well and can tell when the other is about to which gets us there.

    Post # 10
    2070 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    I’m more curious as to why you seem to be sharing this info with lots of people! :s

    Post # 13
    750 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    My Fiance and I used to finish together all the time!! We were long distance for two years- for the first year and a half, we had an amazing sex life every chance we got. Then he moved back in with his parents when he went back to school full time, and we didn’t get to have sex hardly at all until we moved in together, 6 months later…since then, the spark has been muted, somewhat. 

    I loved, loved, loved finishing together!! I want to get it back, but that’s tough when we’re having sex maybe twice a week, not  5-10 times a week like we used to. 

    Post # 14
    6123 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We do most of the time.  I do use something for assitance (for frontal stimulation) and then it’s a sure thing.  But naturally without any assistance, it’s a hit or miss.  I think when I was off BCP, it was easier to climax naturally.

    Post # 16
    157 posts
    Blushing bee

    Basically never. He tends to finish while in me but I can’t climax from penetration and need clitoral stimulation so when he’s done, he goes down on me or uses his fingers or a toy to give me manual stimulation so I can finish too. 

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