How often do you give BJs??

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: BJs- How Often?
    More than once a week : (220 votes)
    21 %
    Weekly : (183 votes)
    18 %
    1-2x a month : (292 votes)
    28 %
    Once every 1-6 months : (174 votes)
    17 %
    *Birthday BJ* AKA Once a year : (44 votes)
    4 %
    Hardly Ever; Can't remember the last time : (122 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    893 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Never from start to finish (he’d rather move on to the real deal quicker than that) but I almost always do it for a little while to get things going at the beginning….

    Post # 4
    1124 posts
    Bumble bee

    Can you put a “NEVER” option? Yea, cus that’d be me.

    Post # 5
    642 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Steak and Blow Job Day is March 14th, like a man’s version of valentines day. But to answer the question…. We rarely do just a BJ start to finish but voted before I read your definition, sorry.

    Post # 6
    762 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Almost 2-3x a week…we really enjoy the 69 position (sorry if that’s TMI)

    Post # 7
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Start to finish maybe once a month. It’s a definite part of our foreplay, though, because I really enjoy doing it, but he prefers to finish with sex. 

    Post # 8
    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    We never go start to finish, but he gets oral action every single day. 

    Post # 9
    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Hardly ever start to finish, but like other bees have said…it’s a form of foreplay for us. Start to finish is usually just when it’s 69 (another TMI? eh). This isn’t an “always part of foreplay” thing though either…So I voted 1-2x a month.

    Post # 10
    31 posts
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Every single day but not start to finish. I love it but we prefer to have sex if we can. Plus, I have to work hard to get him to finish–he tires me out! When it’s that time of the month he gets it about 1-3x. 

    Post # 11
    4755 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    From start to finish? LOL… never. Why’d I only want to get him off? Sex takes two. So until the day he rubs me off and doesn’t get off will be the day I return the favor. Until then we both get loving.

    Post # 12
    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I’d say around once a week – Sometimes we’re tired/more interested in the other stuff and end up not finishing with sex. 

    Post # 13
    58 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Oh this post just got Ms. Hedgehog “The Look.”


    Post # 14
    698 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    FINISH??? LOL! Never been able to get him to do that….I swear it would take more than an hour, or more!  But, I give it the ‘ol college try bout 1-2 times/week before the main event. 

    Post # 15
    542 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I used to be really into doing this for him, but honestly, my guy really isn’t into reciprocating oral sex with me. So of course I don’t make him. In fact, since I know he doesn’t like giving it to me, I won’t even let him if he tries. So it has kind of cut down the amount of oral sex I’ll give to him.

    Post # 16
    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I would say, um, rarely. That makes me feel like a bad Fiance, but he isn’t complaining! Before we had kids, it was alot more often. Now, when we rarely have alone time we like to go straight to the main event.

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