(Closed) How often do you have big fights?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often do you have big fights?
    Rarely : (35 votes)
    24 %
    Every week : (6 votes)
    4 %
    Every month : (23 votes)
    16 %
    Every other month : (30 votes)
    21 %
    Once or twice a year : (45 votes)
    31 %
    Other : (6 votes)
    4 %
    All the time : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Do you mean big fight like lots of yelling and upsetness or fighting over a big issue?  

    We might have one once a month or so, but we don’t really fight over “big issues.”

    Post # 4
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    391 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Fiance and I rarely fight, but we have one reoccuring fight about a particular wedding guest, but now we thankfully have resolved that. Besides some wedding drama we dont really argue. We have very good communication and talk things through so I am thankful for that.

    Post # 5
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    1036 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    This is actually a topic of some pride for me an my Fiance.  We are both stubborn people, and can be obnoxiously ‘right’ about everything.  We used to fight more than a couple should…yelling and stressed out.  Not over big things, just silly stuff.  We put a rule into place about 3 months ago that if either one of us says “Stop, and walks away” the other is not to follow.  Come back when your calm.  So far, so good… most often when we are in the same room again (after a quick breather) we totally get how silly we were being.

    Post # 5
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    7293 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I’m more into bickering! Little miniature arguments over random things….

    Post # 6
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    5655 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I want to say maybe 1x a year for a big fight but since that issue was resolved we haven’t had anything big enough to fester and get like that.

    Me being 8wks preggers has definitely made things a little more stressful since I feel like poo most of the time, but we still don’t usually fight or have  any real pressing issues.

    Post # 7
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    6512 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    In our almost two years together now, we’ve had 4 or 5 major arguments, but we’ve always kept it respectful and never called names or yelled at each other.  I didn’t think that was possible before I met my fiance, so I am A-ok with our number. 

    Post # 8
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    538 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My Boyfriend or Best Friend and I rarely fight, we do have disagreements but are able to squash them and move on. The only thing we can’t seem to resolve is the issue I have with his parents leeching.. I know it’s a sensative topic and I need to thread lightly.

    Post # 10
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    824 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2011 - The Tribute Golf Club

    We rarely have big fights, it’s mostly little stupid arguments over small things that gets out of hand (like when we were packing to move and I felt like I was doing everything).

    Post # 11
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    515 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011 - Clark Gardens

    We’ve only every had one really ugly name-calling bad fight. Other than that our fights are always respectful even if they are a bit heated. They happen maybe 2 or 3 times a year. So, rarely.

    Post # 13
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    1160 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Our fights are always respectful and there’s no name calling. We give each other the silent treatment and by coffee time the next morning all is forgotten.

    Post # 14
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    129 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011 - Palma Sola Botanical Park

    I define a big fight as one where I feel really bad the next day, or at least for a few hours that night. So, maybe once every other month? Just because I get easily stressed and take it out on Fiance. But it used to be once a week, so we’re getting better 😉

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I said every other month, but that’s not accurate.  I would say that most are hurt feelings and misunderstanding without any swearing.   Usually words are said, we go off on our own for a bit and then come together and talk it out.   We have only had one major arguement, and I think it was mainly due to wedding planning stress, just a week before the wedding.   It was resolved the next morning, very short lived.

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