Post # 32
Here is an example of our relationship sex timeline
Day one to a year- 5-7 times a week
Year 1-2.5- 3/4 times a week
2.5-3.5- 3/2 times a week, me always wanting more
3.5-4- 1/2 a week, me always wanting more
4-5 years- 1/2 a week, I am totally satisfied 🙂
When we do have sex it’s amazing, quality not quanity right haha
Post # 33
Ours is usually every other day… been married for 2 years in July – I think our sex life increased when we got married! LOL
Post # 34
To be blunt, we NEVER have oral sex. Maybe I’m a bad wife but I can count on ONE hand how many times i’ve gone down town. Maybe we would “do it” more if it involved more foreplay…who knows. I’m just not one to initiate it.
Post # 36
we have oral sex more than we have sex …I feel weird saying that but without sparing too much detail his “thing” is huge and hurts a lot of the time :/
Post # 37
I work a weird schedule so it really depends on the week. He definetely wants it more though. I don’t know why but I have like no sex drive, even after getting off the pill.
Post # 38
Im lucky if i get it once a week.
Post # 39
omg that’s definitely on the opposite end of the spectrum for me! I enjoy sex so much more than oral. Have you tried different positions or talked to him about it hurting? There’s got to be away around it hurting….maybe he’s being too rough?
Post # 41
Once or twice a [email protected] bee-too big? What a problem to have 😉
Post # 42
(note: I’m not married, or engaged- YET)
o.O do people really have sex every/ every other day? Jeez. We’re both college students and we’re lucky to have sex twice a month. REALLY luck. It’s usually just once and maybe one day of fooling around. MAYBE. o.O but he has a bad knee and a busy schedule and doesn’t want our relationship to be about sex. But we’ve talked about doing a little more and trying positions that’ll take pressure off his knee and he seemed pretty excited about it so we’ll see how things pick up once our schedules calm down and match up.
Post # 43
Koi fishie, I hear you! We have never had sex more than two times a week, since we moved in together two and half years ago it has dropped way down, and we are definitely around the twice-a-month mark now. I chalk it up to his 20 hr/wk job and full-time course load and my full-time job and part-time graduate course load. I feel like there is barely time for me, let alone couple time, let alone sexytimes! It seems to bother him more than me, not that I don’t like it, I just rarely have the energy I guess. It’s so dorky but I actually “schedule” it in my head sometimes if it’s been a while since the last time.
Post # 44
Lately we have just been having it once a week. I guess that’s ok.
Post # 46
I have tried talking to him about. I’ve tried initiating it so many times and in so many different ways, I have run out of ideas. To be quite honest, I’m tired of being rejected. So my attempts in the past month have greatly reduced. Talking about it just makes him angry, which makes me angry. I don’t know what else to do about it. But given that my “love language” is physical touch and intimacy… I’m not kidding when I say I am losing my mind and about at wits end. I tell him this, and he laughs it off like I’m being funny.