(Closed) How often do you have sex with your partner?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Married couples...how often do you have sex with your husband per week?

    once

    twice

    three

    four or more

  • Post # 32
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Here is an example of our relationship sex timeline 

    Day one to a year- 5-7 times a week

    Year 1-2.5- 3/4 times a week

    2.5-3.5- 3/2 times a week, me always wanting more

    3.5-4- 1/2 a week, me always wanting more

    4-5 years- 1/2 a week, I am totally satisfied 🙂

    When we do have sex it’s amazing, quality not quanity right haha

    Post # 33
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Ours is usually every other day… been married for 2 years in July – I think our sex life increased when we got married! LOL

     

    Post # 35
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Once or twice a week…

    Post # 36
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

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    @luvalways86:  we have oral sex more than we have sex …I feel weird saying that but without sparing too much detail his “thing” is huge and hurts a lot of the time :/

    Post # 37
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I work a weird schedule so it really depends on the week. He definetely wants it more though. I don’t know why but I have like no sex drive, even after getting off the pill. 

    Post # 38
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Im lucky if i get it once a week. 

    Post # 40
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Just 2 or 3 times a week

    Post # 41
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Once or twice a [email protected] bee-too big? What a problem to have 😉

    Post # 42
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    Helper bee

    (note:  I’m not married, or engaged- YET)
    o.O do people really have sex every/ every other day?  Jeez.  We’re both college students and we’re lucky to have sex twice a month. REALLY luck.  It’s usually just once and maybe one day of fooling around.  MAYBE. o.O  but he has a bad knee and a busy schedule and doesn’t want our relationship to be about sex.  But we’ve talked about doing a little more and trying positions that’ll take pressure off his knee and he seemed pretty excited about it so we’ll see how things pick up once our schedules calm down and match up.

    Post # 43
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2016

    Koi fishie, I hear you! We have never had sex more than two times a week, since we moved in together two and half years ago it has dropped way down, and we are definitely around the twice-a-month mark now. I chalk it up to his 20 hr/wk job and full-time course load and my full-time job and part-time graduate course load. I feel like there is barely time for me, let alone couple time, let alone sexytimes! It seems to bother him more than me, not that I don’t like it, I just rarely have the energy I guess. It’s so dorky but I actually “schedule” it in my head sometimes if it’s been a while since the last time.

    Post # 44
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Lately we have just been having it once a week. I guess that’s ok.

    Post # 45
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    *dupe*

    Post # 46
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

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    @loving_life:  I have tried talking to him about. I’ve tried initiating it so many times and in so many different ways, I have run out of ideas. To be quite honest, I’m tired of being rejected. So my attempts in the past month have greatly reduced. Talking about it just makes him angry, which makes me angry. I don’t know what else to do about it. But given that my “love language” is physical touch and intimacy… I’m not kidding when I say I am losing my mind and about at wits end. I tell him this, and he laughs it off like I’m being funny.

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