(Closed) How often do you have sex?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you have sex? (Typically)

    Almost everyday

    3 or more times a week

    1-2 times a week

    about once a week

    a few times a month

    every few months



  • Post # 47
    52 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Only 1-2 a week. I wish it was more but we are so tired some night.

    Post # 48
    2194 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I think it’s interesting to read these posts. I was in grad school until 2 weeks ago (clinicals all day, class all night) and Fiance works 2 jobs. We’re really very rarely home at the same time, but do wake up to one another every morning. Sex is something that is definitely important, but just isn’t always feasible. We try to make it a point to have sex once a week, hopefully more, sometimes every other week…it sucks, but it is what it is and it certainly does not mean we love each other less than anyone other couple

    Post # 49
    11377 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I voted 1-2 times a week. Although sometimes we do it more and sometimes less and we’ve been doing oral a couple times a week now also! So does that count as 3-4 times a week? I didn’t think so, so I voted 1-2 times a week. Oh and I’m very pleased and so is hubby but he would do it everyday if I would/if we had more hours in a day! lol Hubby works 6 days a week also sometimes 5 days a week. So I think we do pretty good for hubby’s work days. 🙂

    Post # 50
    485 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    Here lately we have been at it like crazy. I think its the fact that with the wedding coming up; the commitment, the stress leaving, etc. We have been doing it 2x a day, everyday, lol.

    Post # 51
    3621 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    1 – 2 times a week, and I don’t feel like that is enough. Which is all me, because I have a lower sex drive. I’m surprised that seems to be the norm though. 

    Post # 52
    592 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    At least 3 times a week. Usually more. Life is pretty good!

    Post # 53
    54 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

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    @MuchGreater: I think that is awesome!

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    @Oneeleven: Yah, what you said! I consider myself ‘older’; I’m 41 and it just gets better and better. We’re more like 3-4 times a week but geesh, sometimes 3x daily!!


    Post # 54
    103 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2016

    At least 3 x’s a week, but its never enough! ha

    Post # 55
    491 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Sometimes we can do it 2-3 times a day for 3-4 days a week and sometimes I can go a week without doing it. I’m so wierd. When I want it, I want it… Don’t even complain. But I’m so one-sided, if he wants it and I’m tired — I say too bad.

    That makes me selfish, right? Damnit. I just proved his point.

    Post # 56
    11165 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

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    @Entangled: Agreed, not enough! We are terrible at letting our crazy schedules get in the way.

    Curious if any of you bees “schedule” your sex night? I have heard that this is often very beneficial to couples with busy lifestyles.

    Post # 57
    1176 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

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    @Summy00: Bahahaha. He *usually* won’t say no if he’s not 100% in the mood.. just tells me I have to do all the work. Which works. 😉

    Post # 58
    62 posts
    Worker bee

    I’m pretty certain my s/o could live without sex. We’ve NEVER had an active sex life. Until about 4 months ago, we routinely had sex maybe one to two times a month. Sometimes we had gaps of a month or two. That only changed when we moved in together, and then he decided that quickies before work were the primary way to go. -_-‘

    We have never really had passion. I would love to have sex 3 times a week. Maybe even up to 5. But after you get constantly rejected for sex, you just stop bothering as much.

    I’ve noticed that since I started losing weight, he has been more eager to sleep with me. I don’t know if I should be encouraged to keep losing weight because it’s helping, or discouraged that he didn’t want to sleep with me as much because I was apparently too fat for his liking.

    Post # 59
    57 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    We’re in a LDR so the times we have been together it’s at least every day. LOL We had to make up for lost time I guess!  Since we got engaged though we both decided we want it to be special on the wedding night and honeymoon, so we’re going to wait to actually have sex until then, ugh it’s going to be hard! haha At least in that aspect makes it easier since we’re not physically in the same place all of the time, but those visits sure make it hard!  I’m sure it will be worth it though, we said well we can’t really take it back now since we’ve already had sex, but agreed we wanted it to be special so decided to stop and wait.

    Post # 60
    73 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We have sex at least twice per week, sometimes 3x.  With a little one running around and both working long hours, sometimes we’re just too exhausted!

    Post # 61
    15 posts
    • Wedding: September 2011

    At least 5 days a week.  He knows I need it.  A lot. 🙂

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