(Closed) How often do you orgasm during intercourse?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: how often do you orgasm?
    Everytime : (44 votes)
    21 %
    Most of the time : (57 votes)
    27 %
    Some of the time : (31 votes)
    15 %
    Rarely : (37 votes)
    18 %
    Never : (41 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    No.

    There is nothing wrong with you. The vast majority of women don’t orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. Like 70%.

    Post # 4
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    4382 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

    Yeah, most women don’t. My friends have always given me grief because I’m the odd (wo)man out in that I have at least 1 per go. I’m hyper-sensitive, which is usually pretty awesome, but sometimes can get sort-of painful.

    Even with my hyper-sensitiveness, this has not been the case with all of my past partners.

    Post # 5
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    972 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I can always get there pretty easily, its occasionally an issue if I’m drunk. 

    Post # 6
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    1104 posts
    Bumble bee

    Nothing wrong with you (or your partner – one of my friends actually suggested Darling Husband was doing something wrong bc I didn’t get “there” every time)! Um, no, I know my own body and I know it’s not him bc he’s awesome 🙂

    Post # 7
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    431 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I’m all about the toys to “finish.”  “Several men (6-7)” hahahaha.  I guess several is anything more than 3 technically.  All in the eye of the beholder, and I am 32!

    Post # 8
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    2532 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Unless there is oral or direct stimulation I wont orgasm…I really dont care because sex is awesome regardless!

    Post # 9
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    1523 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    You are perfectly normal. Most women do not orgasm with intercourse alone.

    Personally, intercourse feels great, but I need some direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm. I see nothing wrong with that! Sometimes Fiance helps, or we use a toy. Occaisonally I won’t get there during intercourse, but Fiance will go down on me after he has recovered a bit. This works for us!

    Post # 10
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    331 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Out of the occasions we have intercourse, how often do I orgasm? Most of the time (somewhere btwn 50-75% of the time)

    How often do I orgasm as a direct result of the intercourse? Never

    Post # 11
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    510 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    With everything online nowadays, there are probably many ways for you and your SO to “get there”.  Maybe suggest looking up these thing together to enhance the experience? and I’m not necessarily talking about the X rated videos, but actual instructional things he can do.  Also, a lot of women don’t get there because of the positions that you do during intercourse…maybe try different positions to see which ones give you better pleasure than others? and also, because the clitoral stimulation is so pronounced and sometimes the vaginal one is muted, a lot of times women don’t know that what they just experienced was an orgasm…it just sometimes isn’t the same magnitude as the clitoral one.

    Post # 12
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    620 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Most of the time.  I don’t all the time, but I still enjoy it anyway!!!!  I find it easier to climax when he’s doing it from behind or when I’m on top rather than in missionary.

    Post # 13
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    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I used to get a lot of guff from my partners about not climaxing “to their liking” which, is you can imagine, very frustrating for me! For me, intercourse isn’t all that thrilling. It’s all about the clitoris for me! (toys, manual stimulation) I honestly could take a nap during bland boring intercourse ( of course I don’t!!! ) For some reason there are a few guys out there who just think their penis is some magic wand that will automatically bring me ecstacy, pshhhhh.

    Sidebar: the only way I can orgasm during intercourse is if I’m on top, that way the clitoris gets a little contact with his pelvic bone. 

    Post # 14
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    1251 posts
    Bumble bee

    I normally have like 3 or 4 each time? I’m just easy to please I guess.

    Post # 15
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    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @Ilikepink – HISSSSSS! haha just kidding! I am quite jealous though… I can’t imagine having 3 or 4 in a row, I’m pretty tuckered after just one!

    Post # 16
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    1148 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I rarely do, but I fake it to make him happy. It doesn’t bother me because I can get there on my own just fine.

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