(Closed) How often do you say I love you?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 61
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Every chance we get!

 

Post # 62
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359 posts
Helper bee

ALL.  THE.  TIME.  He’s almost always the one that says it first.  (He just walked in the room and said it.  :p)  Our bedroom is in the basement, so every time one of us goes to a separate floor, he says it.  When we go to separate rooms, he says it.  Riding in the car, he says it.  Getting off the phone, he says it.  Sitting 3 feet away from eachother on separate computers, he says it.  It’s the first thing out of his mouth when he wakes up, and the last thing on his lips before we go to sleep.  I would say in excess of two dozen times a day or more.  I truly am blessed.  πŸ™‚

Post # 63
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We always say “I love you” when we leave in the mornings for work, when we end a phone conversation and before we go to bed, at a minimum. Usually a couple of more times too πŸ™‚ 

Post # 64
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Helper bee

We’re in LDR. So at least once a day whether gchat, texting or on the phone ! πŸ˜€  And some days, it can be multiple times. πŸ™‚

Post # 65
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Several times a day. Sometimes, especially now that I’m pregnant, I get overwhelmed with how much I love him, and I NEED to tell him rightthatsecond. Sometimes it’s “I Love You” and sometimes it’s just “Love”. 

Post # 66
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

multiple times a day!

Post # 67
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@theredhead: I disagree with your friend! We say it all the time! We don’t live together and no matter if we spend days in a row together or don’t see each other for a day or we are at work or out with other people…we have been together for 8 years, I don’t see it changing anytime soon πŸ™‚

Post # 68
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487 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Every day, usually several times πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Post # 69
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We say it constantly and we really mean it. I don’t end every phone call with it because I don’t want it to become meaningless, but we definitely squeeze each other’s hands and say it a lot!

Post # 70
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I totally disagree with your friend.  There is nothing wrong with telling someone you love them as long as it comes from the heart.  MY Fiance and I say it AT LEAST once a day, sometimes more.  I tell him every time he leaves for work adn some nights right before we fall asleep.  You never know what might happen and I don’t want to EVER regreat not saying it when I had the chance…you go right on saying it as much as you want!!!!

Post # 71
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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@furtureffcaptwife: Agreed. I’ve heard way too many sad stories of people losing loved ones, and they always have the same advice: make sure to tell the person you love them constantly.

Fiance and I say it multiple times a day. Always before we leave for work, always when we go to sleep, and pretty much any time we hug or sporadically feel the need to say it.

Post # 72
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Bumble bee

@theredhead:  I 100% disagree with your friend.  I do believe the word “love” is incorrectly used with all those lust-struck teenagers, but when its with your FI/DH how can it ever be too much? …unless it’s coming out of every sentence.  But especially with you and your Fiance in a LDR, can’t blame ya!

We tell each other every morning and sometimes randomly or if we’re really appreciative of the other for something.

Post # 73
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378 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

At the end of every phone conversation/text conversation, when he’s leaving to go somewhere and before bed time…and sometimes randomly too πŸ™‚

Post # 74
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Bumble bee

Okay, i WILL say that at the “beginning” we would say it 24-7 to the point where it was annoying everyone lol. I would say we say it maybe 1-5 times a day just depends. But definitely when I wake up and go to work I text it to him. When he goes into work I text it to him. When I go to bed. So that’s a minimum of 3 times. Haha, you can NEVER say it too much! EVER!

Post # 75
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Newbee

We say it everyday, mutiple times a day. I had a friend tell me this too! I said “Love you” while hanging up with my SO, and she looked at me kind of funny. When I asked why, she told me her BF told her that saying it all the time ruined the meaning! And that saying over the phone, text or email was something they NEVER did because it just wasn’t special (They are even in a LDR!) I totally disagree. I hear, feel and see the love everytime SO says it πŸ™‚

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