(Closed) How often do you talk to your BF, FI. Husband ?

posted 9 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 17
2088 posts
Buzzing bee

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@WineAndCupcakes: I hate to threadjack (my apologies, OP! Don’t hate me!) but you SHARED A STUDIO?! How does that even work?

Post # 18
4605 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

FH and I are kind of long distance. We only live an hour apart, but we don’t get to see each other much so it feels worse than it is.

He usually texts me on his breaks at school and work and we talk for about an hour on the phone every night when he gets off work. Every now and then he calls me on his lunch break, but not often. When we first started dating, we generally talked to each other for about an hour total a day on the phone. Now that we’ve been together so long, our phone conversations are usually pretty short, but we’ve talked on the phone every night for the last two years so it was bound to happen.



Post # 19
4544 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@KeshiaSimone: Wanting to talk to your Fiance on the phone is not clingy, it’s normal! You guys need to have a talk. Both people need to be happy with the amount of communication in a relationship for it to work. You shouldn’t be walking on eggshells around the man you’re going to marry. You need to be open and honest with him and you need to work on a compromise. If he can’t compromise so you’re both happy, you may need to reevaulate if he’s worth marrying. If he can’t talk about/compromise on things like this, what will happen when you’re married? I’ve read some of your other posts and you sound like you’re walking on eggshells a LOT in this relationship!

Post # 20
13094 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

It really varies for each person’s relationship.

When DH and I were long distance, we’d sometimes chat on GChat at work and then we’d talk on the phone each and every night.  Sometimes this was a 5 or 10 minute phone call, other times it was an hour and half.  But we always made a point to talk every day.

Post # 21
500 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We text randomly throughout the day. We only talk throughout the day if it’s something important.

Post # 22
1109 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Fiance and I text through-out the day. Sometimes its only once or twice if he’s working, or sometimes we will text all day. At night we talk anywhere from 5 mintues to an hour. Our jobs make it hard to talk more than that. We always say good morning and good night though.

This is just what works for us.

Post # 23
5920 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

DH and I are in an LDR every year from March-September.  We talk for about 15 minutes in the morning, a few minutes during lunch, texting off and on all day, a few minutes in the evening, and for about 30-60 minutes before bed.  We also Skype for about an hour 1-2 a week.

Post # 24
334 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We usually talk about 30min on normal weekdays and then really go in for a long 2-5 hour conversation on the weekend over Skype. We’ve been quite good at really keeping it up on a daily basis… and the few days we don’t get to talk we give each other a few days’ advance notice. We also e-mail randomly throughout the day.

Post # 25
923 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We usually e-mail back and forth a bit during the day – very short e-mails, a couple of sentences about what’s going on.  Then at night we generally skype for about 30 min- an hour.  It’s much less some days and more on others.  

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