(Closed) How often do you wear lingerie for your SO?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you wear lingerie for your SO? (say, in a month's time)
    Every time we are intimate : (1 votes)
    1 %
    1-2 times a week : (12 votes)
    10 %
    If it's a special occasion : (64 votes)
    52 %
    Never : (29 votes)
    24 %
    Other.... : (17 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    3521 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    It kind of depends. When I feel like it, I do it…it’s random!

    Post # 4
    786 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I voted for never! Fiance is not turned on by lingerie (he doesn’t like it when women try too hard I guess?)…he is a strange man…

    Post # 5
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Once or twice a month. I have a nice collection, and he loves it when I do, but I don’t want him to expect it or get too used to it; it’s more fun for both of us when it’s an unexpected surprise. 

    Post # 6
    13096 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’d say I probably wear lingerie once every couple of months (it’s more just random – whenever I’m in the mood).  I wore it every night for the honeymoon so Darling Husband got a large dose there but it’s tapered back to the normal rate since.

    Darling Husband really doesn’t care what I wear though so he wouldn’t be any happier if I wore it nightly or not at all.  I just like to have a little extra fun every once in a while! πŸ™‚

    Post # 7
    3871 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I’m like Mrs. Grape.  It’s random. Its whenever I feel like wearing it.  Usually a must for special occasions but I do it ocassionally at other times, too.

    Post # 8
    7777 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    It also depends on what you define lingerie as, I have tons of pretty bra and panty sets. If we’re counting stuff like that, then I wear it quite often. I love the feeling on wearing something casual or buisness-y and knowing I have, say, black lace panties and a matching bra on.

    As for other types of lingerie, I mean… maybe once a month. Usually less, its tends to be more of a special occasion thing.

    Post # 9
    57 posts
    Worker bee

    i never have.  but my SO did mention that he would be open to me wearing some so i may surprise him for new years!  the prob is lingerie is soooo expensive!  i can’t help but think i could buy a nice pair of jeans for the cost of teeny tiny panties and a top! lol!

    Post # 10
    2829 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I voted 1-2 times a week, but it is actually less than that (yet more than just special occassions), it is kind of random for us (when I feel like it/ when I know we won’t be interrupted by his work cell ..).

    Post # 11
    756 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I never have. I don’t really see the point, since whatever I was wearing would be removed within minutes of him seeing it.

    Post # 12
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Other – its whenever I feel like it! It doesnt need to be a special occasion I just need to be feeling ultra sexy (which I guess in itself is a special occasion….)

    Post # 13
    171 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I just randomly wear it lol! I do wear it for special occasions, and I usually will put something special under dresses when we have to go out and be dressed up as like a little surprise πŸ˜‰ However DH’s cousin has been staying with us so that kind of creeps me out because I have the tendency in the morning to walk around in whatever I wore to bed, so I def. wouldn’t want cousin to see me one of those mornings lol

    Post # 14
    3314 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Probably a couple times every several months.  Anton and I both thought we’d really like it and it WAS nice for skype moments at times, but honestly it seems like a waste of good money.  lol  He’s more turned on by me naked or with a t-shirt on that’s falling off my shoulder!  hehe  So once in a while I’ll still dress up and we’ll have a few minutes of fun with it before it ends up on the floor, but over all I’d say that at best, it’s like 5 times a year.

    Post # 15
    3142 posts
    Sugar bee

    A couple of times a week.

    But only once in a while is it him coming home to me cooking in a Merry Widow

    Usually it’s stuff that I have that is a little more practical, but still lacy, see-through and pushup

    Post # 16
    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    If I had lots of lingerie, I’d probably just wear it for myself, haha! I got a corset and stockings recently and LOVE them. So does he, of course. πŸ˜‰ The problem is that they’re not especially convenient to wear. I should invest in more panties/teddy bear kind of things. Yum.

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