(Closed) How often do you…ehhh…play twister?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Our backyard!

hahaha oh my. several times a day every day? i think i’d sprain something. the mister and i play twister usually about 4 times a week nowadays. it used to be every day, but we tend to be exhausted after a long day of work and would just rather snuggle and fall asleep sometimes. eeeeeeeep *runs and hides*

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

That exchange between you and your Fiance is hilarious. πŸ™‚ I don’t know the right answer to this but I’m staying tuned and my love is in IRAQ so I have zero input for you πŸ™ sorry! πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

heheheeh – im sure my hubby would have the same answer August!!

work stress depending, we go thru phases from zero per week to 4 times but… lately…… if it was up to me it would be twister twice a day.  i DONT know whats happening but ive been very hormonal lately, example three times yesterday!  thats why my hubby and i had tense words on friday night as i came home wanting to play twister and he didnt

 

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Our backyard!

Ps. I just asked Mr. Candy Corn if he wants to play Twister. His reaction:

 "Twister!? How would we play Twister? We don’t have the board do we? Do WE!? *getting super excited*" 

aww. I showed him the post on here and he just got so disappointed. Now I’m going to have to make a Target run tomorrow and buy us the real Twister! hehe

Post # 8
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Helper bee

Miss Bravo I am in the same boat as you, my fiance is in Afghanistan so no Twister for me lol. But, I can say this, I can’t wait until he gets home for his mid tour leave….

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Imperia Hotel (modern chic hotel)

Ok, can we all say the word SEX together…

S.E.X 

I have to admit… i have no freaken sex life…
If we have sex 3 times a month… its a good month.

I initiate the sex talk/actions… and he never feels like it.  πŸ™

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

flamingo, we went thru a period of about 5 months and zero sex. yes there was work and everything but as i was pretty new to the sex thing i thought it was me.  turns out it was just work, university, stress, life, 5am wakeups & long long days and huge work projects and it quickly became a habit not to have sex.   i asked myself "do i want this, or lack of for the next 20+ years of my life" and the answer was no so we both agreed to spend more time trying to enjoy eachother and making an effort. hopefully things get a bit sweeter for you

 

 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh wow, so sorry Flamingo!  If I had sex only 3 times a month I would probably cry!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - Oakland Manor

We’ve lived with our parents for the past year…so, sometimes we can’t play when we’d like to, or we can’t play the way we’d like to.  We’re dying for me to get a job (he can’t b/c of immigration) so we can finally have our own place!!! He’d prob. say not enough, and I’d say the same. le sigh.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

I’m sorry Flamingo, that sounds rough! I hope you guys can figure it out. Twister is a huge part of our relationship, if things aren’t working there it’s likely we’ll be a mess generally. Six years ago when we were first together we were at it 9-10 times a week. Now we’re old and boring it’s more like 4 times a week, maybe a bit less if it’s a bad week, or a bit more if it’s a good week. Yesterday was FH’s birthday so he got most of his week’s quota in one day πŸ™‚

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Flamingo…that sounds about right for me. lol. We’re lucky if we have sex (or play scrable as we refer to it at work) once a week…if that. Sometimes we just don’t have the energy. I’m hoping once we atart our pre-wedding work out that will change, though.

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2009

We were playing about about once a week. We’re on a pre-wedding hiatus right now, though, and I’m hoping after the wedding it will pick up a bit. When we first started dating we used to play three times a day…sigh. Luckily even when it wasn’t happening that often it didn’t seem like an imbalance, i.e. I always wanted to and he never did or vice versa.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee

sigh. once a week here, on average, maybe twice occasionally. before I moved in Mr. Joe and I had a long distance relationship so we were all over each other when we got to see each other, and I was kind of surprised that we don’t have as much sex as I thought we would. Yeah, we’ve been living together for a year, things have been stressful, and one of us is generally tired (me in particular, who needs her sleep), but it’s still a little disappointing, especially because we’re so young (21 and 24) and we’re already only at once a week (that’s 4 times a month!). I know it generally just goes downhill… I thought me being unemployed might help a little since I at least wouldn’t be tired, but I guess the stress was too much, idk. Now I don’t have to be at work until 11:30am so again, hoping it will pick up a bit. 

His sister is also home two nights a week and she used to share a room with Mr. Joe so a lot of her stuff is in here and she used to even sleep in here in the beginning, so those two nights are generally out auto… (though I’m not sure why because she usually doesn’t come in anymore after they shut the Wii off for the night).

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