(Closed) How often does your DH, FI, or BF tell you that he loves you?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll:
    Many times a day! : (242 votes)
    80 %
    Once a day : (28 votes)
    9 %
    A couple times a week : (17 votes)
    6 %
    Once a month! : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Can't remember the last time! : (8 votes)
    3 %
    Other : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 2
    2871 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    Daily that we say it. No clue on the number though I don’t keep count.

    Post # 3
    1581 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    buzzingbee82:  FI must tell me he loves me at least 6 times a day. He’ll send me random texts in the middle of the day with little love emojis he’s found. It’s so adorable. He’s not really a showy kind of guys and doesn’t do big gestures hardly ever, so it’s the little things like that that make the difference 🙂

    Post # 4
    289 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    Every fifteen minutes that we’re together so it seems. He thinks he over uses it, and he does lol but I LOVE it 🙂 and him!

    Post # 5
    1452 posts
    Bumble bee

    Maybe 2-3 times a day. We’ve been married 3 1/2 years.

    Post # 6
    1461 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I couldn’t tell you the exact number but we say it at least daily.  We say it when we say good bye in the morning and when the other person does something sweet.  There are somedays when its only in the morning and others where I feel like I have said it 100 times 🙂

    Post # 7
    9197 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    married 2 years.  at least once a day but never less. 

    Post # 8
    210 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    Everyday multiple times throughout the day😊

    Post # 9
    39 posts
    • Wedding: December 2014

    A few times a day!

    Post # 10
    3732 posts
    Sugar bee

    At minimum, twice a day. When we leave the house and when we’re going to sleep. Anything in between is spontaneous, so I don’t count it!

    Post # 11
    1691 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    all day long! ❤️

    Post # 12
    1167 posts
    Bumble bee

    The “daily” I-Love-You before we sleep. 

    But for me, what usually makes my heart goes WAY pitter patter is when my Fiance will randomly say something that rocks my world.  

    When I had to pick him up at the airport (I was away for work and he flew up so we could attend a musical event before coming back home), he came in the car really serious and quiet.  I took him to In-N-Out as it was his first time and he was getting cheerful again.  I started driving down to the event–which was a six hour ride from midnight.  We were filling up gas around 3AM in a random truck stop in the middle of nowhere when he said,

    “I knew I truly loved you when I saw you after 2 months without you.  It was like coming home.”


    For real, he says shit like that.  In the most unusual places.  He once made me cry at iHop because he said something so unbelievable. 



    Post # 13
    3580 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2016 - Manhattan, NY

    buzzingbee82:  Every day, multiple times… He’s the first man that I’ve ever said “I love you” to, which isn’t to say that I hadn’t fallen for anyone before him, I just kept it to myself (I had my reasons, and in retrospect I’m glad I didn’t tell that jerk lol). We say it a lot more than I had ever anticipated we would… But I like that 🙂 

    Post # 14
    1837 posts
    Buzzing bee

    In 12 years he’s said it a handful of times. Doesn’t bother me in the least, he shows it like crazy all the time. I remember a friend of mine saying “Aren’t you afraid it means he doesn’t love you?” right after I’d quit my law practice to go back to school and get an MFA and he was paying for my school and our house and pretty much doing everything he could to make my life a happy one. I said “Nope.” It has been nice the few times it has come out though. He just didn’t grow up using that word. 

    Post # 15
    38 posts
    • Wedding: March 2017

    Multiple times a day, we’re together almost 6 years. He shows me as much as he tells me, which is even more important.

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