(Closed) How often does your DH, FI, or BF tell you that he loves you?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll:
    Many times a day! : (242 votes)
    80 %
    Once a day : (28 votes)
    9 %
    A couple times a week : (17 votes)
    6 %
    Once a month! : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Can't remember the last time! : (8 votes)
    3 %
    Other : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 16
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    1157 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Wow… I didn’t realize daily was the norm. Then again we don’t text throughout the day either. I don’t think we’re a couple that needs to say it a lot. I know he loves me. It probably averages a few times a week. Not more.

    Post # 17
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    70 posts
    Worker bee

    Mine didn’t grow up with using it either, and to the best of my knowledge I’m the first girl he’s been inclined to say it to. in the beginning it was few and far between but it’s gained a life of its own! We say it to eachother at least once but it does happen multiple Times every day usually. It’s like he can’t stop saying it now, it’s very sweet and adorable โค๏ธ

    Edit: thinking about it we didn’t start being so intent on saying it often until after he came home from afghanistan with a significant (ish) injury. That’s probably the catalyst. 

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 11 months ago by  nompkinsbee.
    Post # 18
    Member
    48 posts
    Newbee

    Any time we hang up the phone,  go about our own business and on random! Id say more then a handful times a day!  ๐Ÿ˜Š

    Post # 19
    Member
    258 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2016 - Sand Key Park- Clearwater Beach Elopement

    We say it to each other frequently. Multiple times a day. We don’t subscribe to the belief that saying it often makes it lose its meaning. Instead, it reinforces the feeling for us. We frequently say it to each other because it’s the truth. In that moment, you think about them and how much you love them and you want to express it verbally. It’s beautiful. 

    But we also say it through more than just words. We show it through our actions, as well.

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 11 months ago by  bunniebee.
    Post # 20
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    3244 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    We are together 24/7 due to unforseen circumstances and we say it maybe every two hours, sometimes more. So I’d say we average ten times a day easy because sometimes we will sitt together watching tv and say I love you back and forth like eight times. I love it.  

    Post # 21
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    2579 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    buzzingbee82:  About the same as you I reckon. I just asked Darling Husband and he reckons 20 but I think that’s steep for work days!

    It started out as a bit of a joke to be annoyingly saying ‘I love you’ constantly, but then it just sort of stuck! We’ve been together eight years.

    Post # 22
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    7371 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Every couple of days I guess. I’m more of an actions speaks girl anyways. 

    Post # 23
    Member
    5891 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Took him 8 months for him to say it to me the first time, then he wouldn’t shut up about it LOL! I did not grow up in a family that said it very often (if ever) and neither did he. But once he said it to me, he couldn’t stop. I swear there are some days we say it 50+ times. After a few weeks, I grew to love hearing and saying it. And now it’s just natural for us to say it. 

    I was unaware of this until Darling Husband, but one of my Love Languages is WORDS. In my past relationships I came off as a little needy and now I know why. I didn’t get the words I needed to feel secure in my relationships. Turns out Darling Husband is similar in that he never knew one of his Love Languages is WORD too. Good thing the universe brought us together!!

    Post # 24
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    2695 posts
    Sugar bee

    TELLS me?  Hardly ever, he’s a very reserved man.  He SHOWS me he loves me every day  by his actions.  And I’d rather have that then a man who tells me all the time and then sneaks around behind my back.

    Post # 25
    Member
    604 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Multiple times a day, and even in his sleep if I rouse him a bit. Very sweet <3

    Post # 26
    Member
    250 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    At least twice a day. Morning and night lol

    Post # 27
    Member
    486 posts
    Helper bee

    At least when we wake up and when we go to sleep.  Sometimes he’ll say it throughout the day as well.  I feel like I say it more, but I’m also just a more talkative person, so it doesn’t seem weird to me.

    Post # 28
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    5373 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    We say it back and forth several times a day ๐Ÿ™‚ In the morning before work, everyday at lunch since we eat at home together, and a couple times at night (definitely when we go to sleep). It’s important for us to show and tell each other frequently that we love each other. We’ve been together 7 1/2 years and married 1 1/2 years.

    Post # 29
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    2109 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Multiple times a day – sometimes he just gazes at me and I ask him why he is looking at me and he says “I just love you”… be still my heart!

    Post # 30
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    1624 posts
    Bumble bee

    This thread is cute ๐Ÿ™‚

    My Fiance and I say it to each other many, many, many times a day, I wouldn’t even be able to count it! I love when he says it in his sleep if he lightly wakes up, it always puts a smile on my face! ๐Ÿ˜€ Of course he shows me he loves me with everything he does, but my heart flutters every time he tells me he loves me ๐Ÿ˜€

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