(Closed) How often does your FI…..

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often does your FI say I love you?
    More than once a day : (232 votes)
    77 %
    Every day : (39 votes)
    13 %
    Most days : (16 votes)
    5 %
    Few times a week : (5 votes)
    2 %
    Once a week : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Once every couple of weeks : (6 votes)
    2 %
    Once a month : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Once every six months : (0 votes)
    Once a year : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Every day.  Sometimes more than once a day.

    Post # 4
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    5219 posts
    Bee Keeper

    We say it every time we get off of the phone or leave each other and before we go to bed. 

    Post # 5
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    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Several times a day.

    Post # 7
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    3830 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My personal preference is not to “water down” those words.  So we say it when we mean it. Not just all the time, even if we always feel it. For me, it always means so much more when i hear it because of this. 

    Post # 8
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    2196 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    We say it multi times a day. After we get off phone, leave, etc, We both randomly say it through the day also. I’m not sure why, my family was like that so I think that’s where I get it from. It’s always nice to get the random out of the blue I love you though.

    Post # 9
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    313 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    If you want to hear it more, just gently tell him so. Men are not subtle creatures and often don’t even realize when you’re bothered by something like this. I bet if you mention how much you love hearing it and that you really want to hear it more often, he’ll oblige!

    Post # 10
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    5073 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    more than once a day.  Both of us. 

    It never gets old.  

    Post # 11
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    3126 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    Everytime we hang up the phone. When we are saying goodbye to each other. Random times just because. Sometimes because we didn’t hear what the other person said so we just assume it was “I love you”…. over 5 times a day, easily. I am always afraid something will happen to one of us so it is always our last words when ending a conversation (paranoid much?). 

     

    Post # 12
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    3367 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    We say it a lot because we mean it a lot!  A totally mundane phone call about stopping to pick up milk turns into a private little moment with a simple, “I love you.”  It’s not like we’re trying to make a moment, it just feels that way.  I don’t think you can say it too much.  When I was a kid, we didn’t go to bed or get off the phone without our parents telling us they loved us, too.

    Post # 13
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    5388 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    We say it before bed, when we leave each other, when we are intimate ;), and whenever else we feel like it. We make sure we show each other love more than we say it.

    Post # 14
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    2143 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    All day, every day

    Post # 15
    Hostess
    16191 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    We usually tell each other “I love you” several times a day.

    OP, how do you feel about how often your Fiance says this to you?

     

    Post # 16
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    246 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We say it all the time. 

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