(Closed) How often does your SO have “guy time”?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often does your SO have "guy time"?
    Never : (8 votes)
    28 %
    Only on special occasions : (3 votes)
    10 %
    Once a month : (4 votes)
    14 %
    Once a week : (7 votes)
    24 %
    More than once a week : (6 votes)
    21 %
    His friends practically live here : (1 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    366 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Never, and I seriously wish he would some times.

    Post # 4
    190 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I’m not voting because none of these really apply. My response would be whenever. Most of our friends are mutual and most are guys. They honestly enjoy my company and they have had like 3 “no girls aloud” nights in 5 years. I prefer spending time with guys.

    Post # 5
    1586 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    @Ice Skate:  i second this

    Post # 6
    1614 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Never…He doesn’t ever go out with his friends and has always been a serious homebody…If he goes anywhere, or wants to go somewhere, he won’t go if I don’t go with him…or he strictly makes plans while I’m at work/school…but thats very very very rare…I love him for it though…=)

    Post # 7
    375 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I would say on special occasions.  He sees his guy friends, but it’s usually mixed company so there are girls around too. 

    Post # 8
    7770 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Never?  Guy time for him is hunting in the fall, I suppose.  I am invited, but I don’t like the cold and usually sleep in and they call me to tell me they got a deer.  It is definitely not specifically “guy time,” in fact- he goes with my dad and every year dad begs me to come.

    Post # 10
    1352 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    During hunting season he has guys weekends… almost every weekend! I’m a hunters widow… Not going to lie though I love it sometimes ha!

    Post # 11
    1352 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @cbee:  Yes! I get invited too and I’m like hell no!! Don’t want to wake up at the butt crack of dawn to freeze my ass off outside while I’m covering my ears from the gun shots.

    Post # 12
    4324 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    My husband has ONE male friend, and TWO female friends. He is such an introvert, and hangs out with none of them. I wonder how healthy it is to not seek out friends, but then again my social-meter is calibrated to be more outward bound when it comes to hanging out / craving other people’s company. 

    That’s cool if it works for him, but I worry it might take its toll. One of his friends gets irritated with his “seclusion” and asked him if they’re even friends anymore. 

    Post # 13
    2647 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

    he plays basketball once a week & after that, the guys usually go out for a beer or two.  otherwise though, we kind of go out together seeing as we have quite a few mutual friends.

    Post # 14
    5371 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

    @ForeverAndEverAfter:  Same here! He only makes plans when I have class or if I’m going to be at work. He likes to text his friends and keep up with their lives but doesn’t like to make plans to hang out unless it’s a special occasion.

    Post # 15
    751 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    None of the options you gave really apply to me. During football season, Fiance will go over to his friends house every Sunday to watch the football game with a bunch of his buds. However, on the off season – he’ll only see his friends maybe two times a month.

    However, they all started getting into WWE for the last 6 months or so, so they love to get together on Monday nights to watch. Haha they’re silly.

    Post # 16
    3977 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    He doesn’t have anything regularly scheduled, but I think he usually goes out to lunch or dinner with a friend maybe once a week. Goes to play pool maybe once a month.

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