(Closed) How old were you when you first climaxed from penetration?

posted 4 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How old were you when you first orgasmed from penetration alone?
    16-20 : (43 votes)
    25 %
    21-25 : (36 votes)
    21 %
    26-30 : (9 votes)
    5 %
    31-35 : (2 votes)
    1 %
    36-40 : (1 votes)
    1 %
    41-45 : (0 votes)
    46-50 : (1 votes)
    1 %
    51+ : (0 votes)
    Still waiting! : (77 votes)
    46 %
  • Post # 3
    655 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @Equine_Breeder:  I was 24, and had been having sex for years before that, so I thought it was never gonna happen. Lo and behold, it happened when I least expected. I needed to relax, personally. Now it’s pretty easy. THANK GOODNESS. My issues were pretty much in my head, and I needed to feel completely comfortable with my partner, which was rarely the case with previous relationships. It was a trust thing for me.

    Post # 4
    14702 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    42 and still waiting 

    Post # 5
    304 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    ummm… how about never? that needs to be added to the poll, thanks! haha

    Post # 6
    447 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014


    In the kitchen with his parents in the front room. He didn’t even touch me, just leant me over and stuck it in. I came in seconds. 

    I was very impressed and FI was well proud of himself. I guess it was the excitement of having people very close by and that thing of being ‘taken’

    Post # 7
    511 posts
    Busy bee

    Just so the majority of us can vote (because polls are oddly satisfying), how about adding a ‘never have’ option?

    Post # 8
    45630 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    The vast majority of women do not have orgasm from penetration alone, unless they are using a position that gives enough stimulus, such as woman on top where she is able to control the pressure on the clitoris.

    Post # 9
    1623 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I’ve had lots of orgasms *during* penetration, but not *from* penetration.  I doubt I ever will but it would be a pleasant surprise.

    Thus my vote is “never”.

    Is this orgasm shaming?!?!? Just kidding.

    Post # 10
    2815 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I did the first time I had sex at.. 18.

    I think the thrill of the moment did it…  as I’ve aged, I learned that reaching orgasm is something that takes just as much mental work as physical.

    Post # 12
    3064 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    still havent. le sigh.

    Post # 13
    3754 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Still waiting! But I’m not optimistic that it’s gonna happen. Oh well! Not a huge deal to me!

    Post # 14
    3082 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

    17. I don’t know what changed , I didn’t realize until after I was like whoa! Ha ha.

    Post # 15
    7872 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I’m in my late 40s (starting menopause) and I haven’t noticed a great difference in that over the years, other than being more experienced.

    When it happens *during* (as opposed to “due to”) penetration, it is almost always because I get clitoral stimulation as well, either by getting the angle right so I can rub it against him, or him getting his fingers down. Or on rare occasions, from nipple stimulation. I don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed from the penetration itself, without any clit or nipple action. I don’t really care, an O is an O and isn’t that what the clitoris is for?

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