(Closed) How old were you when you lost your virginity?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How old were you when you lost your virginity??
    Under 16 : (134 votes)
    18 %
    16-19 : (406 votes)
    56 %
    20-24 : (159 votes)
    22 %
    25-30 : (27 votes)
    4 %
    Over 30 : (5 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    4891 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    18. I promised myself I wouldn’t before then.

    Post # 4
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    242 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    minus 125 days lol

    i will be 23, Fiance will be 25 on wedding night.

    Post # 5
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    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    19. There was never anyone in high school I would have ever wanted to fool around with, so that is why it wasn’t any sooner. 19 was just right for me!

    Post # 6
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    1465 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I was 15 and the guy was 18

    Post # 7
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    1377 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    25…so glad I waited that long (I was mature and confident enough to speak up for my own needs which made it both safer and more pleasurable) but I’m also glad I didn’t wait any longer…I was reeeeeady.

    Post # 8
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    2695 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I lost it the day I graduated high school!

    … I’m oddly proud of that, lol.

    Post # 9
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    9203 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    17… to the love of my life who’s now my Fiance at age 30. So glad I first did it with my first love, and also glad I had the chance to sleep with some others in the meantime. 

    Post # 10
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    6359 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I was… young, but it was very romantic. We had discussed it at length beforehand. He was just as young. We loved each other, but did we “love love LOVE” each other? Did he love me as much as he loved his mom? — that was a question he asked himself. A few days later he decided that he loved me nearly that much, or maybe even that much. We agreed that we were “too young.” People our age didn’t know what they were doing. Etc. This went on for some time.

    Well, one night the opportunity presented itself AND we got up the nerve. I was nervous. He was ridiculously bashful. The event was not erotic, really, at all. But we were in love. And we were together for four years after that… got much better at “it” over time 🙂

    Post # 11
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    781 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I was 18 and it was with my FI!

    Post # 12
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    402 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    15, with my first real boyfriend (he was the same age). I’m glad I did it early… Plenty of time to practice!

    Post # 13
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    4275 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    18, it just happened that way. Older man…. the sex was meh and I wouldn’t say I was in love.

    Post # 14
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    8695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    15 with my first real boyfriend also

    Post # 15
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    1481 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    20. When I was in high school I wanted to be in love with the guy that I would lose it to. That didn’t happen lol and by 20 I was so fed up with waiting that I just did it. He was a younger guy that I went to high school with, a sweetie for sure but I haven’t seen him since lol. Don’t regret a thing.

    Post # 16
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    201 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014 - Barn

    At 19, to my SO (soon to be FI!)

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