(Closed) How old were you when you lost your virginity?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: how old were you?
    13 or under : (35 votes)
    2 %
    14 : (89 votes)
    6 %
    15 : (171 votes)
    12 %
    16 : (214 votes)
    15 %
    17 : (227 votes)
    16 %
    18 : (235 votes)
    17 %
    19 : (172 votes)
    12 %
    20 : (89 votes)
    6 %
    21 : (89 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 196
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    448 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2019 - Canadian Rockies

    Not sure, but I think 25. I grew up Catholic (I’m not anymore) and wanted to wait until marriage. Changed my mind a few years after I got with my now-fiance. 

    Unfortunately I feel like I wasn’t missing anything.. no kids here, and it has always hurt me physically -_- Doctors aren’t much help bc they blame it on the pill..

    Post # 197
    Member
    70 posts
    Worker bee

    Fourteen (to my now fiancé). 

    Post # 198
    Member
    276 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Edit: already answered this thread.

    Post # 199
    Member
    151 posts
    Blushing bee

    I was 13.  It is young, and I wasn’t ready.  It was with my first boyfriend and a year after my dad died.  I think I was spiraling a little bit.  After that one time, I didnt have sex again until I was 17 or 18 (I forget) with my then long time boyfriend.  Crazy to think I thought my high school/college boyfriend was good! Lol

    Post # 200
    Member
    1362 posts
    Bumble bee

    I lost my virginity to a friend when we were drunk at 15. After that, I didn’t have sex until I was 17.5, with my first husb. We were together 25 years, and now I am on #3, with fh :). I had a few other short term after my 1st husb. 

    I will say, when you have great  sex with one person for a long time, it can be very special… and you can get spoiled by the sophistication  and nuances towards one another’s pleasure, that come so naturally. 

    Starting over with a new person can be fun and exciting but a learning curve for both, too. 

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