(Closed) How old were you when you lost your virginity?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: how old were you?
    13 or under : (35 votes)
    2 %
    14 : (89 votes)
    6 %
    15 : (171 votes)
    12 %
    16 : (214 votes)
    15 %
    17 : (228 votes)
    16 %
    18 : (236 votes)
    17 %
    19 : (172 votes)
    12 %
    20 : (89 votes)
    6 %
    21 : (89 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 106
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    I never regarded my virginity as precious. I was 15 and I was ready. It wasn’t that great but then again the first time is never going to be. I was pleased to get it over and done with so I could start enjoying sex. I regret nothing!

    Post # 107
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    558 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    lol I love how the poll stops at 21…

    Post # 108
    Member
    254 posts
    Helper bee

    I was 17 and it was with the SO I have now, that was 9 years ago. No regrets. 

    Post # 109
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    302 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2015 - Golf Course

    I was 17, and it was with my now FI! 

    Post # 110
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    2092 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I was 15. I don’t regret it. It felt right at the time, and I don’t believe in waiting for marriage. 

    Post # 111
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    1848 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    20 with Fiance. I wasn’t waiting for moral reasons… I just didn’t want to have sex with anyone I didn’t truly care about. 

    Post # 112
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    526 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I love how the poll has options for under 13, but nothing over 21.  Seriously?  I don’t know anyone who lost their virginity under 13, but I know plenty of people who were over 21 (myself included at 22).

    Post # 113
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    814 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I was 17 and with my first real boyfriend. We only dated about 6 months total, but we were in “love” lol. Darling Husband was 18 his first time.

    Post # 114
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    44 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    First time I had sex was when I was 19.<br />I am 22 now…

    It was with a boyfriend and I made him wait 2 months. He dumped me about a week after. Turns out, I was a rebound helping him get over his girlfriend that he was with for a little over a year. While it was a bit of a prick move, I honestly don’t think it was his intention. He’s a nice guy, just made a mistake. A year after, he sent me a random text apologizing.

    There have been times where I think how different things would have been if I was still a virgin when I met my fiance, but in the end, I think it’s nice having a little bit of history.

    My fiance lost his when he was 13, which still blows my mind. I don’t remember even wanting to try sex then…

    Post # 115
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    1066 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I lost it at 17 with my then short term bf. We were together a total of like three months I think. I would Have lost it sooner but my mum was extremely strict and I physically had not had the chance lol. For me, although I grew up in a religious house, I had never treated virginity as something sacred and just wanted to get it over with. once we brone up, I had many one night stands and a couple more short term boyfriends. I don’t regret any of them because I always felt I was having fun and new experiences. It was always safe sex and I was on the pill, so there were no stis or pregnancies which I always thought was the only bad thing that could happen (and still do)

    fi lost his at 13 and has had over 100 sexual partners. When we got together for the first time, we both felt this crazy chemistry that was unlike anything either of us had felt before. I am content and secure in knowing I still got my fun and found an amazing monogomous relationship. I feel we have very strong communication sexually due to our experiences, and know there is no chance of us wondering if the grass is greener down the track. I feel we may have not realised how perfect we were for each other if it wasn’t sexually at first since we both were immature party animals when we first met and it took us a couple of years to settle down. To each their own 🙂

     

    Post # 116
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    133 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    I have read that at 16 is a 50/50 break down of virgins and non-virgins.

    Post # 117
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    21 posts
    Newbee

    Nothing above 21? I’m 24 and still a virgin. Planning on staying one till I get married this year. I will be 25.

    Post # 118
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    2239 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I was 16. I probably would have waited longer, but my boyfriend was older (18) and not a virgin. I don’t regret it though; we loved each other (in the way that teenagers do), and ended up dating for almost two years. Looking back, he was kind of a total loser, but at 16, I thought he was the greatest. Now, he’s a fat cop. So, I definitely had him in his prime 😉

    Fiance was 18. He had sex once with his best friend/ex-girlfriend from high school, as she didn’t want to go to college a virgin. By his account, it sounds like a disaster. His “real” first time was with me, when we first started dating. He was 19.

    Post # 118
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    86 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2020

    I had just turned 16.  I wish I waited a big longer but oh well. 

    Post # 120
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    510 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    I was very young at 13, i don’t regret it, its made me who I am now, I sometimes wish I’d only been with Fiance, but I wouldn’t have met him if I’d been waiting. And I doubt I could have waited anyway.

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