(Closed) How old were you when you met SO and what's the age gap?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

I was 31, he was 28. 

Post # 17
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I was 34 and he was 30 when we first met, and we started dating several months later when we were 35 and 31. We are just less than four years apart in age. 

Post # 18
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Bumble bee

We met when we were 22. I am a whopping 6 weeks older than he is!

Post # 19
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I’m only two months older than him. We were 28 when we met online and 29 when we met in person (because our birthdays passed during the time when we were talking online).

Post # 20
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I met him when I was 20 and about 4 months away from being 21. He was 25 and about a month away from being 26. He’s about 5 years give or take older than me. Haha. He admitted if I wasn’t so close to being 21 he most likely would not have dated because because he was so used to going to bars he didn’t want to have to take that off the table for an easy date. It all worked out and now he is the “luckiest man” according to him. :p

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I was 19 and he was 18 but we started dating on his 19th birthday. There is about a 3 month age difference. It has since been almost 10 years (our anniversary is in June) and we will be getitng married in September!

 

Post # 22
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

I was 19 and he was 20. He’s just over a year older than me.

Post # 23
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I was 20, almost 21, and he had just turned 30, so we have about a 9 year age gap. It’s never really been an issue. He’s itching to have children a little more than I am, just based on the fact that he’s approaching 40 and his parents are getting older, but other than that, it never really comes up.

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

When we met I think I was around 30. There’s only a 3 year age gap between us and I’m older.

Post # 25
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

We started dating just after my 26th birthday, and he had just turned 23. We are now turning 31 and 28 this year. His ex-girlfriend of 4 years was actually a year older than me, so he was used to being with someone older. 

Not that 3 years is a big deal, but to be honest sometimes I do notice it. I’m pretty sure he’ll play video games and wear superhero shirts until the day he dies, because that’s just who he is; but I find that I am usually the “adult” in most situations – I handle paperwork, taxes and finances, etc. If I try to get him to do it he says “but I have no idea what I’m doing – what if I mess it up?”

I hope I have a stronger spine with our little one due Nov. 1st! Haha

Post # 26
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Sugar Plum.x:  not a huge age gap here. He is only 7 months older than me. We met when we were 18 and he was 19. We are now 31 and he is 32

Post # 27
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

We met when we were both 15! I’m 4 months older than him.

Post # 28
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: garden/backyard - July 9, 2016

First week of kindergarten.  We were both 5, although he turned 6 in November.  He’s 4 months older than me so for 4 months every year I call him Old Man lol.   Started dating when we were 19. 

Post # 29
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

I was 24, Fiance was 33 when we first met. Nine years is a pretty big age gap, but we (and our families) can not even tell!  He is literally what I’ve been waiting for and dreaming about.

Post # 30
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I was 21, he was 24.

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