(Closed) How old were you when you met SO and what's the age gap?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 61
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I was 23 and Fiance was 28, just turning 29. We have a 5 and a half year age gap. 

Its a great age gap for us as he is ready to settle down and most guys who were the same age as me were a million miles away from that!

only downside is that Fiance wants kids before he is too old to run around with them so we will probably have our first a little before I was planning! 

Post # 62
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2017

We were both 8 years old when we met, started dating at 15, engaged at 22, and will be 23 (almost 24) when we get married.

There is a two month age gap between us. 🙂

Post # 63
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Sugar Plum.x:  We were both 17 when we met, but 2 days after we started dating he turned 18. We’re only like 4.5 months apart.

Post # 64
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2017

We met when I was 15 he was 16. He was in my Quinceñera. We started dating when I was 23 and he was 24. He is only one year old than me. We have been together for 4 1/2 years now. 

Post # 65
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

We met at age 16, started dating at 17. I’m 17 days older than him 😛

Post # 66
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Blushing bee

Met when I was 20, a few months off being 21 and he was 25. 

Post # 67
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Busy bee

we met when he was 13 and I was 14. started dating right after my 18th birthday when he was 17. Im 9 months older than him.

Post # 68
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Busy bee

i hhad just turned 18, he is 12 years older than me. He doesn’t act like it..  we don’t feel the age difference until he mentions some show that he watched as a child or some movie that he saw in theatres that I only know from watching on tv lol

Post # 69
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I was 14 and he was 15, we met at our high school! Oh how the years have flown by! It’s almost our 14 year anniversary! 

Post # 70
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Busy bee

We were both 18, he was turning 19. There is no age gap between us. 

Post # 71
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - St. John\'s Lutheran Church

aushi:  We are very similar! We also met when I was 20 and he was 28, and we are 8 years and 6 months apart. 🙂

Post # 72
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Busy bee

We met when I was 18 and my now husband was 19. We’re roughly 10 months apart in age.

Post # 73
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Buzzing bee

My Fiance is about 12 years older than I am. When we met, I was 33 and he was 45. We are finally getting around to making it official and I’m 45 and he’s 58 (today!). 

What was it like? Well, pretty normal I guess — but I’ve always been attracted to men about 10 years older than I am so it was “the usual” for me. 

Post # 74
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Newbee

2 & 5! Though obviously I don’t remember. 

Post # 75
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

My fiance and I met at work when he was 22 and I was 27… he’s 5 years younger than me. To be completely honest, if at that moment you told me I was going to marry him I wouldn’t have believed you. He just seemed like the kid who just graduated college and got his first job…. which he actually was, at that point. LOL! We were acquaintances at work for 2 years until he approached me and asked me out. Now, we’re getting married next year – I’ll be 32 and he’ll be 27. 🙂

The age gap has never been an issue. Sure, he’s spontaneous and stupid sometimes and watches the Simpsons and Family Guy… but men of all ages do the same, LOL! I consider myself lucky that he is the age he is and is grounded and ready for stability. I have many friends my age (early 30s) who are in relationships with men in their 30s who still aren’t settling down.

 

 

 

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