(Closed) how old were you when you met your FI?

posted 12 years ago in 30 Something
Post # 92
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I was 32 and he was 40.  Marrying at 33 and 42.  It has been a whirlwind relationship that i never saw coming and yet it was everything I was looking for, I went from totally single to engaged in 7 months.  When you find the right person everything falls into place.

Post # 93
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: November 2010

We met last year when I was 32.  He’s 4 years younger than me (he just turned 29 and I just turned 33).  I almost married the wrong guy when I was 24 because I thought “may as well, I doubt there’s anyone who’s gonna treat me any better than this.”  I thought getting treated poorly was something I had to expect and accept.  Boy was I wrong!  I’m so glad I didn’t go through with it.  I didn’t seriously date anyone else until last year when my FH & I met.  I knew that I’d know “the one” when I met him and I wasn’t going to settle for “I guess I can’t do any better.”

Not to say that you’re settling, but search your heart.  If y’all can work it out and both really take your committment seriously then you’ll be fine.  If not, then maybe it’s happening because there’s “the one” waiting for you down the road…

Good luck to you!

Post # 94
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I was 32, he was 30 (but turned 31 a few weeks later). When I get married in October I’ll be 2 weeks away from turning 34. He’s actually my first ‘serious’ relationship. I’ve dated guys for a few months at a time, but my Fiance is the longest relationship I’ve ever had. I didn’t think I’d ever get married, honestly. It’s still kind of weird that I am, now that I think about it!

Post # 95
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: March 2011

We were both 24…I will be 29 and he will be 30 on our wedding.  

Post # 96
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

i was 25 (4 months shy of 26) and he had just turned 27, though we graduated from high school and college the same year. we’ll be 31 and 32 respectively when we tie the knot!

Post # 97
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I was 29 and he was 29.  I am now 36 and he is 36. I almost left him many times.  In fact he left me three years ago because I was pressuring him. But, we were both so miserable without each other that only lasted a few months.  I had it in my mind we may never get married.  I think he felt he was young and had lots of time. I couldn’t imagine my life without him so I decided it was better to be with him unmarried than not with him at all.  I’m glad he asked me to marry him when the time was right for him and not because I pressured him.  I will be 37 when we get married.  We have friends who had kids when they were 40.

Post # 98
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I was 31 and Fiance was 34.  He is my first LTR (well, beyond 6 months).  But, definitely worth the wait.

Post # 99
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Oh, and we will be 34 and 37 (almost 38) when we get married.

Post # 100
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: August 2011

We were both 18 and our birthdays are exactly 6 months to the day apart. He is older 11.23.78 and mine is 5.23.79. I knew then we would be together…

Post # 101
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I was 26 and he was 27.

Post # 102
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We where both 22 🙂

Post # 103
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

We met last year, I was 21, he was almost 23…. When we get married in January, I will be 23 and he will be almost 25.

Post # 104
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We met when I was 21, he was 24. When we married Saturday I was 24 & he was 26.

Post # 105
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I was 18 and he was 27

Post # 106
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Forty-seven!

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