Post # 32
You know, age is so subjective. I have friends who are in their mid 30s who are so immature and who I’d quickly say are not ready to get married, and at the same time, one of my good friends got married at 20, is incredibly mature (as is his wife, 6 months younger than him), and I can’t imagine them not being together anymore. Conversely, I know some 30-somethings who act like they’re in the 50s, and some 20-somethings who act like they’re in high school. Or maybe it’s really all the same thing. 🙂
Actions and attitudes speak much louder than numbers or years, IMO. At least once you’re a legal adult 😉
Post # 33
Met: 18 24
Dating: 19 25
Engaged 24 31
Getting married in 29 days!!
It has been a rough road, my parents gave us a hard time at first but we have been living together for a few years and everyone gets along etc.
Post # 34
I think early/mid twenties the perfect time to get engaged! Alot of my friends around my age are engaged now (22-25yr olds) or have already wed.
Post # 35
We met at 18 and started dating at 20. We’re 24 now and not engaged. Not formally, I guess.
I have friends who are younger than me and have been engaged for at least a year, and I’ve had a few friends who got (or are getting) married at 22/23, right out of college. I also met a guy who was getting married before he graduated, because his Fiance was going to grad school and they wanted to stay together.
Post # 36
Everyone is different but remember that your family knows you best and has your best interest at heart!
We met at 21
Engaged at 26
Married at 27
Post # 37
Engaged: 27 (him), 26 (me)
(We’re only 3 months apart in age.)
I feel that when you know, then you know. If you have all the resources that you need to start your life together, and if that’s what you want, then no one else should be able to judge you for that.
Post # 38
I think its completely different for everyone! I was experiencing the other side, where eveyone couldn’t understand why we weren’t engaged yet 🙂
Met: Both 20
Engaged: Both 24 (basicaly 25 b/c our B-days are right after)
Married: Both 25 (basically 26 b/c our B-days are right after)
Post # 39
We met at: me-16 him-17
Started dating me-17 him-18
Engaged: me-21 him 22
When we get married: me-23 him 24
Well since we have been together since we were so young and have been together for 5 years and will be together almost 6 on our wedding day… I feel like we are at a perfect age.
Post # 40
engaged at 22!! 23 now, getting married right after i turn 24.
Post # 41
Met at 19, dated 7 long years, engaged at 26, married at 28, celebrating our first anniversary at 29. Hated the delay at the time but now I think it was the right thing to do to wait until we are both mature enough to handle marriage.
Post # 42
Started dating when I was 30 he was 29, engaged when I was 33 he is 32.
When I look back, I’m a very different person now than I was when I was in my early mid 20’s. I’m glad i didn’t marry the person I was dating back then cause it never would have worked. Even though we had a great relationship back then, it would not have lasted.
Of course it varies from person to person. Depends on your lifestyle, maturity, sometimes career gets in the way, etc etc. You do what is right for you! Goodluck!
Post # 44
Don’t feel bad! I am only 22 too! We haven’t even been dating that long either. But we know. And I think age is just a number. I work full time, and go to school (just like you!) When you find that person, and you both know, then there is no reason not too.
Post # 45
Met: 31 20 :O
Started Dating: 34 23
Engaged: 36 25
Married: 38 27
Why? Because I’m slow like that! I like to be really sure about my decisions.
Post # 46
Met: me 18, him 19
Dating: me 19, him 20
now: me 25, him 26
.. still dating …would love to be married at 26, but we shall see