(Closed) How regularly are you intimate?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How REGULARLY are you intimate?
    We're so regular, it's like we have a schedule : (16 votes)
    8 %
    It's consistent, but I wouldn't say I can make predictions or anything : (74 votes)
    35 %
    Somewhere in the middle : (38 votes)
    18 %
    Totally random : (32 votes)
    15 %
    We go in spurts : (43 votes)
    20 %
    We're waiting : (7 votes)
    3 %
    Other : (2 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Not a whole lot of variation in our household. Each month is pretty consistent.

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    We’re pretty regular….there are times when we’re very consistent…and others where it’s…not so much.  lol

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    haha We have a schedule. I can guarantee the day and even the time. 

    Post # 6
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    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We’re pretty much consistent for the most part. 

    Post # 8
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We don’t have a set schedule, but I used to have a co-worker that had “Survivor night”  lol!  Their ritual was to do it after the show Survivor, then bed time, lol.

    Post # 9
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    1750 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @ddw: We have an understanding, we have sex a minimum of twice per week. 

    Post # 10
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    We definintely try to keep it at a minimum of twice a week..sometimes that means we end up in a bit of a routine, but sometimes we’re spontaneous and do it far more often (usually when one of us has been working out alot – seems to get us both in the mood!)…but my libido definitely goes in spurts as well…sometimes it can be a struggle for me to “get it up” twice a week and sometimes its not nearly enough.  Fiance is more consistent, surprise surprise!

    Post # 11
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Its somewhat regular but there are sometimes nights when we just don’t have time to get in the mood. Other than that, usually every other night or every night. Works out to about 5 times a week I think? So fairly regularly but not overly predictable I guess you could say.

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    @ddw:my fi was totally anti-schedule too. he thought it was weird and too lacking in spontaneity. we set a quota once he realized it was better to get some, even if it’s not spontaneous. it works really well…you’ll get to the point where it’s not necessary!

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We kinda have a schedule.  Darling Husband changes shifts at work every two weeks.  One shift we get it on a lot, another somewhere in the middle, and the other shift is limited to weekends only cause I don’t work weekends. 

    Post # 14
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    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We do it once or twice a week, unless SO is out of town, then I’m out of luck!

    Post # 15
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Fiance can go a week without getting whiny, and 2 weeks before he’s jumping at me when I come in the door. I think the longest we’ve gone without throughout our entire relationship is 2 weeks, and that’s because that was the minimal waiting period after having major abdominal surgery. So 2 weeks 1 day after surgery we were at it again πŸ˜‰

    We try for once, if not twice, a week. Sometimes its as much as three….for awhile there we’d do it every Sunday just before my 3pm shift lol….and lately he’s realized that if he wants to get some as often as he does, he really should wake up when I come to bed at 3am, because otherwise it’s not gonna happen. LOL.

    Post # 16
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Hm.  It all depends on what is going on.  If we are tired and stressed and overbooked, it might go a few days without happening.  In general, we make a point to keep it “up.”  πŸ™‚

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