(Closed) How ruuuude! lol

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
29 posts
  • Wedding: July 2011

That is really weird! Maybe she thinks your invitations are so nice she wants to save them. 😉

Post # 4
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

That is just bizarre. Some people just don’t get it.

Maybe they are the type to never fill out RSVPs and she thought a phone call would save you (or your FI’s mom/whomever) from having to call them?

In any case, nothing surprises me anymore with lack of etiquette shown by some people- especially with anything to do with weddings.

Post # 5
1518 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We got some people that did this! My mom just told them on the phone that she appreciated the call but that they would still have to send it in because we are using the cards to count the final number and if we didn’t have their card they wouldn’t have a seat lol They sent it in! 

I don’t understand why it is hard for people either. We had so many people that didn’t RSVP – it was one of the most frustrating things because like you said it takes little time to do and pretty self explanatory. 

Post # 6
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Atleast she called to RSVP.. which is the technically the same thing. I’d like if people called to RSVP to be honest I think its more personal and nice that they would take the time to do so. thats just me though

edited to add, once they call in I would just add their names to the list of definitely attending guests

Post # 7
375 posts
Helper bee

Was it a cool RSVP card? I had a good friend of mine send out RSVP postcards with this gorgeous picture of them on the front… I didnt want to mail mine back! I wanted it on my fridge.

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