- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
So my Fiance and are have been dating for about 3 years, and when we got engaged last year his mom flipped. She has never liked me, and for the silliest of reasons on the planet, like the face that I wear plastic framed glasses, and I am curvy (apparently it automatically makes you a slut). She refused to even think about being happy for us. Well he loves his family, and wanted them to be happy so we set a far off date, after much fighting on my part, but today when she called to talk to him she told him that she is not going to be attending the wedding, or any other wedding related event. This is after we’ve dealt with changing our date 5 times for her reasons, and 1 time for mine…. but that is another story. She also informed him that she has told the rest of his family that they are not to attend, and that if he marries me he will be cut from her life forever. Well not only did it hurt me to hear how much she hates me when I have tried so hard to be loving and kind to her, but it hurt him to the point that he shut himself in the bedroom (* I could hear him crying through the door, it broke my heart*). Seeing him hurt like that over her words has made me really mad and I’d like to talk to her about her attitude and how it is making him feel, but I’d prefer not to seem like a giant beast, but if I say what I’m thinking I will….. any Help?