(Closed) How soon after wedding are you TTC?

posted 6 years ago in TTC
  • poll: How long after the wedding are/did you and DH planning to TTC?
    That night/soon afterwards : (23 votes)
    20 %
    Less then a year : (24 votes)
    21 %
    1-3 years : (45 votes)
    38 %
    3-5 years : (16 votes)
    14 %
    5 years + : (9 votes)
    8 %
    We had an oopsie! : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    525 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Not married yet, but for us…NEVER, we are not in the market for children.

    Post # 4
    Member
    2891 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Fiance says he hears my biological clock ticking and would love to start TTC tonight but I have wrangled an agreement out of him to wait til after our big “wedding” in August.

    Post # 5
    Member
    185 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Fiance (along with our families) would like us to start trying right away (like on the honeymoon), but I’d like to wait a few months to get things in order so I’m thinking within the first year – but we’ll have to see how life goes. We’ve been together for a long time and will be living together for close to 3 years when we get married, so we don’t feel the need to wait longer than a year.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2233 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We’ve had a scare before and Fiance reacted the same way. He was super excited for me to take the test and then disappointed when it was a BFN. 

    We’re both ready now but our finances and our home is not. I am sure we could manage but I would prefer to be more comfortable. Hopefully this time next year!

    Post # 7
    Member
    5572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Due to fertility issues (mine) and the fact that we’re very established already we started trying right away!

    Post # 8
    Member
    2550 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I had a planned surgery so I couldn’t on our honeymoon. 

    Post # 9
    Member
    4355 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Pretty much as long as I am not showing at the wedding, anytime according to Fiance. I however, want to drink, enjoy soft cheese if I wish etc… at our wedding so we haven’t stopped BCP yet. I plan on stopping a little bit before the wedding and starting prenatals, whatever happens from the time of our honeymoon onwards is up to the big guy upstairs. We’ve lived together and done “just us” things for a while, and I’ve always wanted kids young (actually, I thought I’d have them by now) so we’re just waiting for the wedding.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I’m a young bride and still in grad school, so Darling Husband and I are waiting until we get well-established in our careers. We will probably start trying 5-7 years from now.

    Post # 10
    Member
    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I’ll be finishing up my last pill pack in the same month as our wedding, and then it’s a free for all!   Haha, we’ll probably just NTNT and if it doesn’t happen by this time next year, we’ll get more serious about “trying”.

    Post # 11
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    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I think we’ll wait a year or two.  We don’t want to wait too much longer than that since I will be 31 when we get married and we want to have 2.  I think we’re both anxious to get going, but we need to enjoy being married a bit and get ourselves established.

    Post # 12
    Member
    1474 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    You should add a “never” option for bees who don’t plan on having children.

    Post # 13
    Member
    187 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    We’re going to try 6 mos after our wedding, giving us at least a full year without children if we get pregnant right away (even if half of it is preggo),  we’re a bit older, I’ll be 32 when we get married, so I’d like to have our first before I’m 35, I know that’s a lot of time, but if we do have trouble TTC, then I’d like to know before it’s too late.

    Post # 15
    Member
    535 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We got married in June and we’ll be starting to TTC in April, so a little less than a year!

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