How soon after you started dating were you engaged?

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2021

We had been dating almost 2.5 years when he popped the question! 

Post # 17
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1957 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

We were friends before dating for about a year, then dated for just over 3 years before getting engaged. It was a great amount of time! 

Post # 18
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2019

1.5 half years. We were long distance for more than 2.5 years in total and got married after being together for 5 years.

Post # 19
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2019 - City, State

9 months, but we’re older than average for a first (and hopefully only!) marriage. 

18 month engagement and we’ve been married just over 3 weeks so far.

Post # 20
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Almost 5.5 years

Post # 21
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

7 years. We started dating at 18 so we weren’t in a hurry!

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

He proposed on our one year anniversary. 

Post # 23
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

1.5 years. Got married at 2 years. Been married 2.5 years. 

Post # 24
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Sugar bee

14 months! I definitely never thought I would get engaged that quickly and probably wouldn’t objectvely recommend it, but it felt right. (we were also 29 & 30 and settled in our careers etc.) 

Post # 25
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Bumble bee

Just under 3 years!

Post # 26
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Bumble bee

Just over 2.5 years.

Post # 27
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Newbee

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lemondropfairy :  8 years. We met when we were 19 whilst still at university. We waited until both of us was ready felt we were mature enough as adults to make such a big commitment. We never doubted the relationship, we just doubted ourselves. After about 5 years, we knew we wanted to be together for the rest of our lives but couldn’t justify the need to be engaged. In fact the ONLY reason we got engaged was because of religious reasons. It wasn’t to have a big party, or to please our parents or because we were afraid of what other people would think. HE proposed because I WANTED to and I WANTED to get married only for religious reasons. There was no other justification that was strong enough to cause trouble in my relationship. 

Post # 28
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Bumble bee

He dropped to one knee on the sidewalk to propose … On our second date. 

Married 28 years. 

Post # 29
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2019 - City, State

3 months but we have been friends for 12 years. I know people think that is too quick, but we are happily in love and we work through anything we disagree on. 

Post # 30
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 1983

About three weeks. It’s lasted 35 years so far.

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