How soon did you have a baby after being married?

posted 8 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I can’t answer this question just yet, but we plan to “let it happen” as soon as we tie the knot.  That is one main reason we are getting married, so we can start a family.  I and he are very adimant about being married first.  We’re both at that age where we really want to bring someone into this life.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

However, if we had married when we were younger, we probably would wait a couple years before going into that.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Fiance & I are planning 2 years after we get married.  I’m already hearing it from Future Mother-In-Law about how one’s eggs disappear quickly once she reaches the age of 30 (I’ll be 30 when we get married next year). Whatevs!  I want to indulge my husband first.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

we hope to get pregnant soon after (I’m hoping for the wedding night lol)

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

we’re waiting for at least three years… i know what you mean though. baby fever kind of sucks sometimes!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010 - Kindred Oaks, Georgetown

We just agreed to stop trying not to have a baby once we’re married. It’ll happen when it happens but I know my fiance is getting a bit antsy since he’s older than me. When it happens it’ll be the best thing in the world and I can’t wait.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

FH and I are planning on TTC right after our wedding.  I will be almost 29 when we get married and he will be 39.  

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

I just keep telling myself that as much as I would like to get our little family off the ground right now, I also need to be able to pay for a kid! We’re going to have to live in the city for FI’s job and private school isn’t cheap!

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’ve been married for about 1.5 years, and if I had my way I would like to start trying soon.  The hubby would like to wait about another year.  So, we’ll see…

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Hazel  – Actually you loose an egg every menstrual cycle! There isn’t a magic switch that makes your eggs turn into dust at 30.  You have a finite number of eggs when you’re born and loose one every cycle!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

we were married 10 mos when we got pregnant, so we will be married 1.5 years when we become parents…if I was younger I would wait longer, but I don’t think there is anything wrong w/ having kids early…5 seems like too much if you both are ready unless you are VERY young or not financially set.

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