- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
@fancymichelle: Me and my ex had been separated for almost a year before the divorce was final. I didn’t begin to formally date with the intention of having a committed relationship that could lead to marriage until all the papers were signed. But I did flirt with guys online and at social outings with no physical intimacy to start getting used to the feeling of being single again. I checked out some online sites like match.com as like training wheels on a bike but kept it at a distance. I was not comfortable with doing anything that would lead to physical interaction before the divorce was final. But there’s nothing wrong with flirting and getting to know someone. Just let them know that you’d like to take it slow, get to know each other and if things go well then maybe in a few months you can get more serious.