(Closed) how things are going

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1140 posts
Bumble bee

It sounds like he has soo much on his plate right now and it doesn’t sound personally directed at you. I say give him the space he needs and when he is recoupped , he will come find you if he truly loves you. Try to be a little understanding…sounds like he just has a lot going on.

Post # 4
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1595 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Waterfall:  Hi- this past month has been like this for me- my bf is working overtime as a tax accountant in a major public accounting firm AND taking a full load of Master’s Classes, getting his master’s in accounting…the only time we see eachother is when we are in class (we both went back to school together and are taking all the same classes)…it is rough and he is tired and cranky…he will leave work at 5 pm and go to class from 6:30-9:30 than go home and continue working until 2am, so I understand the needing some space part!! When will things calm down for him?

Post # 5
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335 posts
Helper bee

Sucks that he’s going through a hard time but all you can really do is to give him the space he’s asking for, which you’re doing. Hope you find some fun things to do and people to hang out with during your newfound free time! Try not to worry about him or your relationship, just take care of yourself.

Post # 6
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1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

So sorry to hear you are going through this. I think you should give him the space he is asking for and I am sure when he has de-stressed he will come back very apologetic for this.

Just try to surround yourself with family and friends.

Post # 8
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347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

i think most of the bees on the relationship board are saying it because theyre looking at your post history and reaching the conclusion that it should be a permanent break. im far from perfect but i can see how they can reach that conclusion. it seems like youre looking for answers that only you can determine. you shouldnt be confused by what everyone else is saying, just stop for a second and ask yourself what do you want.

 

Post # 11
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1405 posts
Bumble bee

@Waterfall:  I am trying to give my SO space too.  It is hard.  My relationship goes the smoothest when I stop listening to what everyone else thinks and listen to what I think.  

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