- Lace and Pearls
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Hi all! This is my first post, so bear with me if I’m not doing it right or something…
I’m having trouble figuring out how to ask my two best friends to both be my Maid/Matron of Honor. Besides loving them both equally, one of them is in law school and the other is in med school so they both have crazy hectic schedules. I started thinking that the best way to handle this is to ask both of them to be my Maid/Matron of Honor so that they can “share” those responsibilities which will hopefully take some of the burden off.
Anyway, I’m unsure whether I should take them out to lunch and ask them both at the same time or whether I should ask each one individually. I would hate for them to feel pressured to say yes because they are asked in front of one another… but then I’m not sure which one I’d ask first. If I asked them individually, I would ask them to be a “co-MOH” with the other, but what if the other says no? Then the first girl wouldn’t be a “co-MOH” anymore and would be the fulltime Maid/Matron of Honor. I’m worried that she wouldn’t have time to fulfill all the Maid/Matron of Honor duties alone because of school and would feel pressured because she has already agreed to be a co-MOH.
Sorry if this is confusing… Hard to explain via text, but I need some advice! Thank you!