- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Hi all… I’m only new to this site but I desperately need some advice! :/
long story sort of short, my Maid/Matron of Honor and I had a falling out about 9 months ago, we stopped talking for almost 7 months and there was a bit of backstabbing on her behalf but meh I got over it! She was my best bud n i figured that since she was the only person other than my sisters that I was close with, she was who I wanted to stand next to me, so I rang and asked her.. we caught up n things went well, we both apologized blah blah blah… But….. In the last 2 months I have only seen her 2 times and spoken to her 3 times, she only lives around the corner so distance is no issue. Not one of those times has she asked how the plans are going, I’ve had to bring it up And when I did the first thing out of her mouth is that she can’t afford to pay for dress, shoes, hair or makeup so umm yeah ok I copped that on the chin and said we would pay because I know she just got married n things are a bit tight.. I asked her to come dress shopping with me n she was too busy which i was soooooooo hurt by … Then she rings the other day to tell me she a) wants a dress completely different to the bridesmaids (color and all) and b) that it must be flowing and loose as she is “putting on a lot of weight at the moment” and c) that she will chose it and I can pay!!… Ummm excuse me but am I just being silly to think that’s a bit rude?? I should know that’s what she’s like but now I’m really regretting ever asking her since she’s demanding, unsupportive and completely unhelpful.. Is there anyway I could ask her to step down from the role she obviously isn’t into?? Am I just being a complete bitch??
PLEASE HELP 🙁 I don’t know what to do!