(Closed) How to ask my bridesmaids

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
21 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m probably not alot of help to you… I just asked them straight up haha… I think its a special enough thing to ask that it doesn’t have to be all flashy. But in the same way that every proposal is different, so are friendships, so it must be different for everyone. Why can’t you just ask them?

Post # 4
502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I made mine a cute personalized card on zazzle with a poem inside and mailed it to them. I would have taken them out to lunch and given it to them, but several are out of town. I definitely think there are some great ideas out there. Check out etsy for ideas. I’m glad I didn’t just ask mine.

Post # 5
1900 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think you could make them a card or give them a present or something? Check out the bridesmaid subforum here – there are a lot of ideas on asking bridesmaids. I think your idea sounds alright, but a little cumbersome, plus, like your fiance said, they may not even watch the whole thing!

Failing a fancy way of asking them, you could just ask them outright. One of my bridesmaids was asked via text (though technically he asked me), another was over the phone, my sister just ‘knew’ she would be a bridesmaid, and I asked the SIL when she came over for coffee. It doesn’t need to be special for them to be special people.

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