- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
Ok, so I grew up with my childhood friend *Sarah*. In highschool, her family moved really far away from our hometown. Now, my fiancee and I live just a few hours away from her.
My fiancee and I drove up to finally reconnect with her this past weekend. She and her husband have been the pastors of a church where she lives for a few years now. They are both absolutely wonderful people and I can’t imagine having anyone else perform our ceremony for us next year (about 13 months from now). We all got along so well just like she and I did when we were younger!
I am kind of stuck on how to ask them though….Do you talk about what you will offer them $ wise, do you offer them money or a donation to their church (obviously we will pay for gas + hotel for them, not included). My fiancee and I havn’t been to church since we moved to our current city many years ago (before we met) but that didn’t seem to be a big concern of theirs, they are quite young and understanding.
We want to do this sooner rather than later as this will be a summer wedding and people make plans for the summer. Help please?