(Closed) how to be fair with gifts for my BM and MOH…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Give the gift to her separately–it’s what I did with my Maid/Matron of Honor. I didn’t want everyone knowing that I got her a super awesome “extra” basket and make them feel bad or something.

Post # 4
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2362 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

I agree with give her the gift separately, and you can tell her that it’s something extra for all the extra she did for you.  I doubt she’ll tell your bridesmaid, she won’t want to hurt her feelings either

Post # 5
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11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I think give it to her separately and maybe ask her not to say anything. Although really, i don’t think its unusual that you’d get your Maid/Matron of Honor something bigger because seh did so much more.

Post # 6
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218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree that I would give it to her separately.  Just give it to her some time when the two of you are alone and tell her how much you appreciate all of her extra effort.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

It’s hard because you only have one Bridesmaid or Best Man, but I would say just give the gifts separately.  Generally the Maid/Matron of Honor get s a little something extra anyway.

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