(Closed) How to break the news to someone that she wont be a BM

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would just tell her exactly what you just said to us that you an Fiance decided to only have 3 on each side and that you havent been as close lately and that you wish you could include her.

Post # 4
139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I personally wouldn’t even bring it up until she actually asked me or attempted to start doing any planning.

Once everything is underway in full force, shes going to figure it out on her own anyway. And with the history of drama she creates, its probably better off she just finds out on her own via your website, or coming to the conclusion when the wedding starts getting planned and she isnt asked to be involved in any of it. You’re not putting yourself in a confrontational/drama position by blatently telling her shes not a bridesmaid or Maid/Matron of Honor in a time when you should be focused on having fun and what you and future hubby want for your day.

I hate when people just assume roles in another persons wedding, it puts the bride and groom in a rock and hard place they dont need to be in.

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