(Closed) How to bring out his wild side

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
1547 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

well…. it depends on what do you want.

i think that if take the lead and be the dominant one, giving him rough sex, maybe he’ll loosen up a bit.

Since i dont know exactly what you want i dont know what to say

maybe ask him to do it harder and scream “spank me” or something *blush*


Post # 4
82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

What have you mentioned to him that you wanna try? Different positions may be a good place to start.  Maybe doggy or you on top?  This would be good to ease into things.  Do you like porn? Maybe watch some videos with him and see what gets him going 😉

Post # 5
1463 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

When I met my ex he only had 3 partners his first and 2 marriages he was 14 years older than me. I of course was very experienced sexually and I told him that I am not into boring sex and I need sponatenity as well as variety. In the beginning he was shy but when I started doing things to him he never experienced before he started opening up. To make a long story short we started watching porn together and I would make suggestions about what that could possibly feel like or I would like to try this or that. He started making suggestions and this established our new sex life. We broke up 5 years ago and I met my Fiance and the rest is history.

Post # 6
212 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

maybe he’s just not comfortable doing anything yet because it has only been 6 weeks? 

Post # 7
3638 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@best10612:  This was my first thought!

You can’t know each other very well after only 6 weeks. I would still be holding back if I was him because it would be hard to be very open about what was ok by you and what wasn’t. 

If you really can’t wait until further down the track you are going to have to have an actual sit down conversation about what you want and how far you want it to go so that he knows exactly what you are comfortable with. 

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