(Closed) How to change the Best Man

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

umm I’m not sure what kind of dynamic these brothers having going, however that being said it all sounds childish and immature.  Your Fi also needs to grow a backbone and put everything out on the table if this relationship is truly causing so much family drama(and for good reasons not petty shit).

 He could have avoid this whole situation if he didn’t tell his brother things their parents for whatever reason clearly didn’t want him to know. If I were you I would try to be a vpoce of reason and a support system rather getting dragged into the drama. At the end of the day I think what your Future Brother-In-Law did was not reaching the level of untrust worthy becasue your Fi behaved almost the same to his parents, should he be disowned?

Take from me who has a Sil I rather not, over the years I learned to distance my self, to not engage in the bullshit, and to let things go for my sanity. At the end of the day I call my brother only when it effects me and he needs to put his wife in check. I also come to grips with the fact that I don’t need to like my sister in law. I just need to behave with respect and civility in order to have a relationship with my brother and niece and nephews.

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