Post # 1
My SO sent me a txt to say that he’s had a really bad day. I want to take him somthing to cheer him up – something small and inexpensive that says “I care” – like how traditionally guys bring flowers for girls.
Any ideas or thoughts?
ETA: I was thinking maybe a nice craft beer and a letter. Any other suggestions are much appreciated
Post # 3
A bottle of his favorite booze.
Fiance has been stung by stingrays twice in the past year and both times I showed up with a bottle of scotch and it did the trick.
Post # 4
A beer and some of his favorite food/snack/dessert? My FIs pickmeup is wings and beer 🙂
Post # 5
I get my SO beef jerkey to cheer him up.
Post # 6
@HopefulSim: a mix cd? My FH loves music when he’s feeling down. Good driving music might be nice for your SO!
Post # 7
@HopefulSim: Manflowers- Otherwise known as a Beer Broquet
Post # 8
@HopefulSim: What PPs said…plus a BJ or a massage or something to help him relax. Works with my SO every time lol.
Post # 9
I’d love to know the same thing… but something other than alcohol as we don’t drink! lol
Post # 10
I’ll cook him a big steak and rent a comedy. He also loves ice cream so i’ll go to our favorite ice cream joint and have them pack a pint for me.
Post # 11
For my SO it is ice-cream or beer, even me making him a cup of tea does the trick. It’s more the me understanding and doing something for him, than the what I am doing /giving.
Post # 12
And usually what helps the most is giving him some space to decompress, while he knows that he can come talk to me whenever he wants.
Post # 13
If you’re visiting him at work I would say take him something he really likes to eat! My SO loves cookies, anything sweet and he’ll cheer up. And there’s always the good ol’ BJ ;). If you see him when he’s off I think cooking a big yummy meal should do the trick. Hope your SO feels better soon!
Post # 14
Awesome! Thanks for the great ideas! I’m thinking beer, massage and a letter is going to have to be thing for him tonight!
@julies1949 love the beer broquet! Will definitely do that next time – when I have a bit more time to put it together!
Post # 15
a couple nights ago Darling Husband said something about wishing his wife would surprise him every now and then. yesterday i went to frederick’s and bought a sexy silky lace chemise thing and some lace tangas. i wore them to bed, and when he crawled in and tried to snuggle, he LOVED IT. it was such a surprise to him. obviously this lead to sex, but for men, sometimes that’s really all that it takes. and i gotta say, it was some very HOT sex. i’ll certainly be trying surprised like this more often! hahaha 😀
try the pleasure button to make him cheer up!
Post # 16
My Fiance is easy. A cuddle and a comedy movie works for him. =)