- 8 years ago
- Wedding: April 2011
So I love to procrastinate decision-making, but I have been engaged now for 6 months and haven’t chosen anyone yet! My Fiance has chosen his brother as his Bridesmaid or Best Man, and would be happy with just an Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man. The trouble is that I can’t seem to narrow it down. My top choices would be my sister-in-law, my cousin and one of my oldest friends. Here is the trouble….my sister-in-law once told me she didnt want to be in my bridal party, just to include my niece (this was before I was dating my fiance). My cousin lives a plane ride away and has a family. My friend is getting married this September and asked me to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, and I am sure she will be planning her own wedding. So, I think it would be a burden for any of them. On top of that, i have 4 good friends and 2 cousins that I could ask (plus my niece). How do I figure this out????