- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
I know I might get a lot of comments not in my favor. But my guestlist is very limited. Fiance and I want a small wedding, however, the closes people I’m inviting exceed our limit. For some reason when it comes to inviting people you really want to be apart of your day, you start really contemplating if they are really close to you and evaluating your relationship with them. Has this happen to you?
I have to cut people from my guestlist and I’m trying to decide who. I have a friend I’ve known since grade school. We lose touch, then reunite here and there. She’s in my life now, but lately we haven’t been hanging out. I txt her just to keep in touch, but I don’t get replies back, if I do it’s days later. I always tell her we need to hangout more, but then I see that she goes out with the girls or having a hangout at her house, but doesn’t invite me. I start thinking, we barely hangout now, what’s going to change after my wedding and why should I invite her if we don’t even hangout now? I already cut out my Maid/Matron of Honor. I’ve known her for 20 years, since I was 8yrs old. She didn’t show up to my engagement party because she was drunk at 4pm and didnt call me until the time of the party to tell me that, when I was suppose to pick her up! Times like this, it really makes you think who’s really going to be in your life for the long run.
For those who had to cut down your guestlist, how did you decide who not to invite; How did you cut down your guestlist?