Post # 1
Got a quick etiquette question for you ladies. I have an Aunt & Uncle (my mom’s brother) who have separated in the last two years and finalizing the divorce in the coming spring. I think they are both seeing other people but I know they are still terribly upset about the break up.
So do I individually invite them with a +1 b/c I know they are seeing new people… or address the invite to each without the +1. I don’t want to cause drama within the family and they both mean the world to me. I’ll still see her as my Aunt even after the divorce is final.
Post # 3
Ya this is tricky… I have this on both sides (mom & dads siblings).
I am not inviting either of the ex Spouses – only the sibling of my parents and their date are invited. (both seperations were messy- one was less than a year ago)
IMO talk to your aunt and uncle and see how they would feel about it. If anything else they would want a heads up that the other person will be there.
Hope this helps.
Post # 4
Yeah I understand making the decision between them, but I feel like I’m very close to my Aunt and it would very much upset her if she wasn’t invited to the wedding. I may have to discuss this with my grandmother and mother first to see what their opinions are first, and then branch out to my Aunt and Uncle.