Post # 1
My ex roommate has asked me several times if she is invited to the wedding. Ive told her repeatedyl family and close friends only. Well my bff told me yesterday that she was raising hell with him about me not inviting her “after everything Ive done for her and this is how she pays me back F*** her F*** them how could she do this.” We lived with her for about 6 months and paid 600 a month for a room sooo not much was done for us. I was like WHAT. She is sending me messages over and over asking why she isnt invited. She comes into my job ALL THE TIME asking me. I dont know how else to tell her. I dont want this lady in my life at all! Im worried she is just going to show up and throw a fit.
Post # 3
I think it’s time to forget being polite. She is clearly not being very polite about asking, you should be less polite in saying NO.
‘our reason for not inviting you to our wedding is because you are NOT a close friend or family member. Please do not ask me again. You can see my photos on Facebook like everyone else who has played a minimal role in my life’
Eta: I would never actually talk to someone like that.. but boy it would be nice to LOL
Post # 4
or you could invite her and give her the wrong date (make sure everyone knows to give her the wrong date!)
Post # 5
Have you made it sound like it was out of your control? Maybe something like –
The venue only seats X amount, we have more than X amount of family members. I wish everyone could come but unfortunately we are on a budget. I really wish you could come so if someone declines we may squeeze you in.
It sounds like she just wants your attention/friendship.
Post # 6
Some, people just need to grow up… Sorry I don’t really have any advice for the situation but I hope it workes out…
Post # 7
Just straight out tell her, “No, you are not invited to the wedding, obviously I don’t want you there. Leave us alone.”
No need to be nice to her anymore.
Post # 9
When you’ve got crazy on your hands, there’s no point in beating around the bush. I agree with the others here.
Post # 10
OMG what a pain the ass. You are going to have to find your inner bitch and tell her like it is.
Post # 11
@HelleCat: Exactly this. No more being nice about it.
Also, I expecting 8 paragraphs when I opened this 😀
Post # 12
Thank you gals so much! youre advice was much needed.