(Closed) How to deal with this. Its long.

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
942 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think it’s time to forget being polite. She is clearly not being very polite about asking, you should be less polite in saying NO. 

‘our reason for not inviting you to our wedding is because you are NOT a close friend or family member. Please do not ask me again. You can see my photos on Facebook like everyone else who has played a minimal role in my life’

 Eta: I would never actually talk to someone like that.. but boy it would be nice to LOL

Post # 4
665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

KellyLouise +1

or you could invite her and give her the wrong date (make sure everyone knows to give her the wrong date!)

Post # 5
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Have you made it sound like it was out of your control? Maybe something like – 

The venue only seats X amount, we have more than X amount of family members. I wish everyone could come but unfortunately we are on a budget. I really wish you could come so if someone declines we may squeeze you in.

It sounds like she just wants your attention/friendship. 

Post # 6
53 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Some, people just need to grow up… Sorry I don’t really have any advice for the situation but I hope it workes out…

Post # 7
1716 posts
Bumble bee

Just straight out tell her, “No, you are not invited to the wedding, obviously I don’t want you there. Leave us alone.”

No need to be nice to her anymore.

Post # 9
805 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

When you’ve got crazy on your hands, there’s no point in beating around the bush. I agree with the others here.

Post # 10
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

OMG what a pain the ass. You are going to have to find your inner bitch and tell her like it is. 

Post # 11
758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@HelleCat:  Exactly this.  No more being nice about it.

Also, I expecting 8 paragraphs when I opened this 😀

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