(Closed) How to fight dress regret?

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
Member
822 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

sorry.  i wish i knew how to do this.

–from the girl who bought a total of five wedding dresses and three rehearsal dinner dresses.

Post # 4
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4327 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

It helps to STOP looking at other wedding dresses all together. Do not cheat on your dress! You are now in a committed relationship, and it’s time to act like it! No day dreaming of what you’d want instead, no window shopping, no browsing other dress threads, nothing. 

Instead, find one great thing about your dress each day, and if need be, try it on. Don’t look at photos of yourself in the dress, because that’s what lead to my dress regret. It was way better in person than in photos. And fit is everything. Just keep all that in mind.

Post # 5
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642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@MiamiLove13:  When I bought my dress I stopped looking at other bridal gowns. I have a friend who bought her dress but kept looking at other gowns, major mistake. She had horrible dress regret for no reason might I add. When given the choice between her dress and five others she always went back to her dress. She just stressed herself out for no reason. 

Post # 7
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8424 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MiamiLove13:  You are not alone I am currently feeling this way too! My dress hasn’t come in yet…. Due in in fri and I keep finding myself staring at the pic of me in the sample dress over analyzing every single detail….. I never thought I’d be one to do this and didnt start out this way…. Mine started just this week when a previous store I visited called me this weekend telling me that they got in the dress I was previously wanting to try……. So ever since this weekend I’m creating things wrong with my dress I think to create a reason to try that dress!

I know frequenting the dress board is something I should avoid but keep telling myself what if….. Just know u are not alone!!!

Post # 8
Hostess
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

I had dress regret up until the morning of my wedding, I’m not exaggerating at all.

I think throughout our engagement and my planning I just continued to remind myself of how I felt when I bought the dress. I felt giddy, elated and overwhelmed with excitement which was different than how I felt at any other dress appointment. I had tried on over 100 dresses and only that dress convinced me to make a purchase. It was unlike what I thought I wanted but it was also more amazing than anything else I had tried on.

As I have mentioned before you will see a lot of dresses online and on WB. There will be gorgeous dresses and dresses you dislike. In the end just because you like a dress doesn’t mean it is best for you, it doesn’t mean it is YOUR dress.

If you can I would suggest going back to the boutique whenever you feel overwhelmed with doubt…that is what I did. They were very understanding and willing to let me see my dress in person. Just those visits got me past the doubt for a bit.

Post # 9
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547 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@StuporDuck:  LOL, brilliant advice and I love the way you worded this! 

I have dress regret too.  My dress is gorgeous but I just wish I had known about one other dress before making my choice.  If only I had gotten to try that one on and then decided.  Sigh!

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