(Closed) How to gently force guests to RSVP?

posted 7 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
4887 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You can’t force them to do anything, but what you can do is give them a reasonable time to respond, then for up to one week after you make an attempt to hunt them down, then after that you assume they are not coming and remove them from your headcounts.

Post # 4
46402 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You will likely be in the same position as many brides having to nail down those final RSVP’s. Even with the ability to rsvp online, many bees have posted they still had to make follow up phone calls or send emails.


Post # 5
6473 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

Gently force? No such thing. You need to beat them over the head with their invitations for a while. People can be SO SLACK with RSVPs. Just harass. Then get a family member to harass. 

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