(Closed) how to get excited about getting engaged again?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1439 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m a little confused, are you discouraged by waiting or by life in general or perhaps both? or something to do with your relationship?

If you’re feeling rushed, I think that’s often normal (thought perhaps not so much when you’re waiting!). All of these mile stones are great, but really just socially constructed. What is really important is the connection between you and your SO and the life you’re building together. Perhaps focusing on that and the exciting growth you are experiencing together will help perk you up!

 

Post # 4
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8044 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Helium:  It’s unrealistic to be happy or excited all the time. Life gets in the way. I think you will start to get excited again, just stop putting pressure on yourself. When it happens you’ll be super excited 🙂

Post # 5
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1404 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Just focus on the positive and don’t let the little things get you down. Don’t worry, you’ll get excited again. And your day will come, so just be patient and if necessary, nudge the SO every once in a while… albeit gently.

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