- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
me and my mother in law get laong and always happy around each other… but starting this weekend, she is so cold to me and my husband.. She is not the type that hold anger in her heart or do things behind others’ back. She often said the wrong thing and the wrong moment and brush it off.. I like it… but starting this weekend, out of the blue, she ignored us or give us only one word answer…or very defensive ….
I have a small idea where this coming from as we are in a huge family drama in the past 6 months. We bought the house from her older son and her older son and wife is leaving end of this month. I had a huge fight with the brother back in June and the mother in law is aware of that (I told her what happened) … about a month ago, my Mother-In-Law told my husband that his brother tried to rat me out ..and told my Mother-In-Law that I kick them out… (it’s a long story… bascially they took half mil from us when we bought the house but only give us 1K rent when they use 80% of the house and do business in my double garage… with no date when they are leaving the house..and constantly play victim to us … including bad mouthing my Mother-In-Law in front of us)
fast forward, I suspect his brother continues stabbing me from behind these days when I go to work.. that’s the only explaination as she was still happy on Friday… and Saturday and Sunday, we had almost zero interaction with my Mother-In-Law as we were really busy buying material and renovating the rental suite with my family and my friends (free of charge).
I told my hubby about it and he noticed yesterday that she seems upset at him too…so he asked him if she is upset and she didn’t say anything…
The brother in law family is leaving our house by end of this week, so I’m not going to stir anything or ask her ….
What should I do bees? for this one year, I’m so happy because I have the best mother in law and she treat me like her own daughter. I dont’ want to lose this relationship. What should I do to repair it?